Internet Safety
by ‘this guy’
Lately there's been a lot of discussion about staying safe online. We at Tween Magazine feel we are obligated to give tweenage girls the tools they need to stay safe in all of their online activities. The following suggestions were compiled from many different sources and are agreed upon by various members of the community.
Be sure to post as much personal information about yourself on social media (things like mIpage) as you can. Doing so will prevent people from thinking you are someone you're not. Be sure to include your full name, birthday, home address, phone number, the names and ages of all your brothers and sisters, the names of your pets, the name of your school, your favorite color, your hobbies, your vacation plans, what you like to do with boys, how far you've gone, and how often you think about sex; as well as plenty of photos showing you and your friends in places where you spend the most time.
Be sure to offer this information to anyone your meet online who asks for it, that way they'll know you are who you claim to be. Anyone who won't give this information is likely pretending to be someone they're not.
Don't worry if men talk dirty to you. It's something they like to do, and you'll like it too. Give it a try.
… and don't worry if he sends you dirty pictures of himself, either. This just proves he likes you.
If someone asks for pictures of you, be sure to send lots of them. If you refuse to send pictures people will assume you aren't who you claim to be...or maybe that you are a guy pretending to be a girl. By sending lots of pictures, preferably from multiple angles and in different clothes, you are verifying that you are a real girl. But remember, including a naked picture is the only way to prove your sex.
You can meet lots of great people online. Then if you want to meet face-to-face, do so. Make sure to meet in a location that is quiet and private; that way you'll be able to easily converse with your new friend. If you meet someone who is older than you who has a car, remember that it would be rude of you not to go for a ride in their car if they offer.
If the person you meet offers you something that is consumable (food, beverage, a cigarette, etc.) remember that it would be just as rude to say "no," or not to consume it in front of that person.
If the person wants to buy you something start out by saying that it's not necessary; but if they persist, graciously accept the offer and offer them something in return... such as modeling that new article of clothing they bought you.
Be open to trying new things. You might get your first kiss, or lots of other "firsts". They're fun!
Odd as it may seem, some guys like to have a physical reminder of girls they met. Frequently they want an article of clothing. If a guy you just met ask for something you are wearing, the best thing to do is ask "really, you want my…?"; if it's something you'd have trouble returning home without, offer something else you are wearing; if not give him what he asked for and ask if he'll "cherish it always."
And last but not least, remember that people's time is valuable, so makes sure to thank them for taking the time to meet you in person.
