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Archive name: penis.txt (instructional)
Authors name: Dr. Andy (respond to archive address)
Story title : Penis Psychology for Women

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Penis Psychology for Women
by Dr. Andy

***

This article will cover the little known and even less 
admitted thoughts, urges and motivations of the human 
male. Even though the descriptions are a bit 
stereotypical, the underlying truth still prevails.

***

A Truth: Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars.

You've probably heard this statement connected to a 
prominent self-help author and in discussions about 
gender relationships.

The reason you have heard this statement is that it is 
absolutely true and describes a human condition that 
has been glossed over since the beginning of time.

Ninety-nine percent of women have no idea what goes 
through a man's mind on a regular basis. Women think 
they know, but if they could crawl inside the average 
male's mind and read their thoughts un-hindered, they'd 
be shocked beyond belief.

You've heard woman say, "He's such a pig." Usually 
related by an ex-girlfriend or wife about their 
relationship with an ex-boyfriend for ex-husband. What 
has happened here is that she's actually gotten a 
glimpse of the "private" man, the man that we all are, 
but that most of us can conceal, or subdue.

A Truth: Every heterosexual male looks at a woman as a 
sex object.

This truth applies to men from the priesthood all the 
way down the social ladder to rapists and thieves. 
There is not one heterosexual male on the face of the 
earth, that when they see a woman that appeals to their 
senses, doesn't imagine that woman as a sex partner.

When a male is gazing dreamily at a female while 
sitting on a plane, train, or at a stoplight, he isn't 
just looking into space. What he's doing is fantasizing 
about pumping his seed into her while she's screaming 
for him to "do it harder!"

Of course this condition is part of nature. The urge to 
reproduce is a basic part of our human condition and 
the normal male is programmed by nature to "need" to 
reproduce. So when he sees a likely female his mind 
automatically turns to thoughts of reproduction.

Women have been programmed by nature to be the nurturer 
of life, to have maternal instincts if you will. They 
enjoy sex, but they aren't programmed with the "need" 
to reproduce like men are. When a woman gazes dreamily 
at a man, she isn't usually thinking about him humping 
away at her, she's gauging his physical appearance, as 
to it's relation to what a child might look like if he 
were the father.

She might be more interested in the man's stability and 
ability to provide than how long his penis is or how 
long he can last in bed.

Don't misunderstand me; any healthy young woman is 
concerned about the ability of a lover to please her, 
it's just that although that is a priority, it isn't 
the only one. Where, for young man, the sex act is the 
driving force.

A Truth: Even ugly women can be goddesses.

I don't mean to offend anyone by using the description 
"ugly" as it's related to females, but lets be honest, 
in our society as in all past societies, looks are 
important in social settings. Forms of beauty have 
changed through the ages, but one thing has remained 
constant; there have always been the beautiful and the 
ugly. 

But what hasn't always been apparent is that physical 
appearance isn't really the most important thing to 
excite a man's libido. A plan woman can be considered 
sexier than the most physically beautiful woman just by 
having the right attitude toward sex.

Yes, that's entirely true. How a woman responds to a 
man's sex drive is much more important that mere 
physical attractiveness. A woman who understands "penis 
psychology" is sought after as a rare prize, as 
something special.

The problem is that ninety-nine percent of woman don't 
understand men and their "need" and without that 
understanding their relationship will be superficial 
and based upon other factors such as physical 
appearance, wealth, or popularity.

A Truth: Penis worship will get the willing woman 
anything she wants.

This is the most important thing for any woman to 
understand. Men think through their penis. Yes I know 
that sounds like an old clich‚, and that any self-
respecting person would just dismiss that statement. 
But if you really do dismiss this one fact, then you've 
blown it completely.

As I stated at the beginning of this article, men from 
priests to rapists envision women, in their mind's eye, 
as sexual objects. There is nothing truer than this one 
fact.

The fact that a priest fantasizes about a nubile young 
female as a sex partner doesn't make him evil, it is 
the natural predisposition of the human male to look at 
women as sex partners. But in most cases the priest can 
over ride his instincts and not act out on his 
procreative urges.

The point I make here is that if women will accept this 
one truth, that ALL men see women as sex objects, and 
that this is a natural state of affairs, then they can 
control men, and their own lives as well.

***

In our society today, women have an inferior position 
to the man, both in the workplace and in society. If 
anyone ever really gave it serious thought they would 
come to the conclusion that male dominance is the 
reason for this situation. Since the beginning of time 
the man has been in control, the aggressor, the 
dominant partner.

In today's society, muscle and aggression is less 
gender specific than they have ever been before. In the 
bedroom a woman can control her man completely just by 
understanding what drives him, and how his mind works.

I'm not trying to imply that the bedroom is the woman's 
domain and that it is the only way to get ahead in 
life. All I'm saying is that if the young woman of 
today understands, truly understands, what makes men 
tick, she will have a great advantage in her 
relationships with men in bed and in the workplace.

The following are some basic truths to know about 
heterosexual males that should be understood:

1. As a rule, young males begin to think about sex at 
around nine and first begin to masturbate to 
ejaculation at around ten to eleven years old.

2. Just about every young male who masturbates is doing 
it EVERY DAY and is fantasizing ALL THE TIME about any 
and all females who happen to be within his 
environment. This would include females as diverse as 
Sunday school teachers, the next-door neighbor's 
daughters and wife, even his mother and own sisters.

3. Even though most men don't act out on their 
fantasies, young males of masturbating age will 
fantasize about forcing other children, as well as 
adult females. Whole scenarios will be built up; how to 
place their "victim" is a position where they can take 
advance of their sexuality without their knowing who is 
doing it, and in a way that can't be stopped, or 
punished later.

4. Most boys of masturbation age would faint from 
fright if a female actually approached them for their 
sexual favors.

5. As they grow up, most men are willing to do anything 
for an accommodating woman who showed they were 
attracted sexually to them.

***

As with anything, even masturbation becomes a "habit" 
over time. Although the physical pleasure is still 
intense, the mind becomes used to the pleasure and the 
act itself becomes routine.

It is those formative years before routine sets in, 
that shape a man's penis psychology. What kind of 
fantasies gave the most satisfaction. What kinds of 
external stimuli was experienced during his formative 
years and what kinds of sexual contact he might have 
had, that will shape his "need" in the future.

Many children will experience some kind of sexual 
contact before becoming fully sexually aware. This is 
all part of the growing-up process, most children are 
curious and they'll be curious about things sexual as 
well.

My most vivid memory of pre-masturbatory sexual contact 
was when a couple for buddies of mine in the fourth 
grade talked a pretty little blonde girl (I've 
forgotten her name) into letting them finger her behind 
the curtains of the class room at school.

It amazed me at the time that any girl would agree to 
something like that, and to do it in a classroom where 
other people were, was even more amazing to me.

That was the first time I saw a girls vagina and the 
memory was burned into my memory and became the "ideal" 
for all future vaginas. That one episode "colored" my 
sexuality for the rest of my life. It showed me my 
first female sexual organ and at the same time it made 
me realize that females would let you do thing to them 
if you asked the right one the right question.

As I grew up I had other sexual encounters with both 
boys and girls. At that age I suppose curiosity is a 
powerful thing, and the pleasure of sexual contact 
without the realization of the consequences is both an 
exhilarating and dangerous time in all children's 
lives.

These episodes have nothing to do with parental 
upbringing either. My experiences took place because of 
the children I knew from school. My parents tried very 
hard to instill in me the right things, but when you 
are a child and other children do and show you things 
that are exciting, you're not thinking about what is 
morally right and wrong, because as a child you don't 
have the guilt, that you will later begin to understand 
as an adult.

Looking back I realize that I was more sexually active 
than many children, and the reason for this was the 
school friends that I had. I realized that I was more 
sexual than other boys when the boy next door and I 
began to "feel" each other up out in his back yard 
after school.

They had a big old refrigerator box with a couple of 
holes in it that was sort of a playhouse/fort. I don't 
remember how it started or who made the first move, but 
I do remember that we ended up out there in his 
backyard together.

One of us would stick our head out of the hole in the 
top of the big box and keep an eye open for anyone 
approaching while the other would unbuckle and unzip 
the lookout and fondle his penis and balls.

Keep in mind that this was before either of use had 
began to masturbate, we didn't know the full extend of 
the sex act, all we knew was that it felt good to have 
someone else touch us and make us hard.

The realization came to me that he and I were different 
when one day we invited to other buddies from school 
into that backyard and somehow talked them into baring 
their penises. We had all decided that we'd stand in a 
circle and touch "dick heads", you know, one for all 
and all for one.

We'll you can imagine my surprise when my buddy and I 
whipped ours out and then looked at our new friends. 
Both my buddy and I had fully hard erections and our 
two friends were holding small, limp little penises out 
on display.

At that moment I realized that they weren't turned on 
at all. That they were just doing this because we'd 
asked them to and they couldn't see any reason no to do 
it. That experience taught me an important lesson; 
don't assume that everyone thinks the same as you. They 
have been "colored" by their experiences just like you 
have by yours.

Eventually my buddy and I stopped our sexual contact. 
Not that either of us had a girlfriend, but we just 
lost interest in each other and then he moved away and 
the whole incident became one more experience from the 
past.

The whole point of the above little story was to 
illustrate that what is normal to one person isn't 
necessarily to another, but that all sexual contact 
shapes ones outlook for the future.

I would wager that you have a few sexual contact 
stories from your childhood, even if it is nothing more 
than walking in on your mom and dad making love or 
opening the door to your brother's room and catching 
him masturbating on his bed. All of these things will 
"color" your future sexual outlook as well as your 
fantasies and turn-ons.

A Truth: To a male, his penis is his most prized 
position.

No matter what a man says, his penis defines him. If 
it's short and crooked he'll be hung up about it. If he 
can't last more than a few seconds or if he has a hard 
time staying erect, he'll be very concerned about it to 
the exclusion of all else.

In the U.S. more that 7 billion dollars a year is spent 
on MALE sexual problems of one sort or another, whether 
it be mental or physical.

That's a lot of greenbacks, just concentrated on one 
part of the male body. But the penis is such a defining 
organ, one that hangs out in the open and cannot tell a 
lie.

A woman can if necessary, lie on her back and scream in 
passion and fool a man into thinking she is enjoying 
herself, but a man has to "prove" his excitement by 
sporting a stiff penis. And since the male libido is a 
sensitive and delicate thing, it can become a problem 
even for the fully sexual male. The more stressful 
situations that he places himself in, the more chance 
that he will experience performance problems.

My research shows that in monogamous relationships 
where a couple has had no other sex partners, the 
incident of erectile failure is less than 1%, while for 
those males who have had 10 or more sexual encounters 
erectile failure has occurred at least once, or 100% of 
subjects admitted to some sort of performance problem 
under certain circumstances.

A woman who knows how important her male partner's 
penis is to him will be way ahead of the game. And a 
woman who will take the time to worship his penis, will 
be the sexiest woman in the world to him.

A Truth: Penis Worship makes every woman a goddess.

If women would keep one sexual thought in their minds 
when approaching her lover in bed, she will always have 
the upper hand and will be his own personal goddess.

As I mentioned at the beginning of this article, any 
woman, even a "plain-jane" can be a goddess in her 
man's eyes, all it takes is understanding "penis 
psychology" and using that knowledge on her lover.

A man knows when his lover thinks he's sexy. He can 
tell by the attention she gives his penis. Whether 
you're trying to rekindle your sex life with a long 
time lover or just starting out in a relationship, I 
guarantee you grand success if you treat his penis like 
a god.

It's not that hard to treat a man's penis like a god. 
When fully erect it resembles the fertility phallus, 
which has been a sign of godliness since the dawn of 
time. It is smooth and hard all at once and if properly 
maintained, it feels wonderful wrapped within the 
fingers of your hand, or between your lips, or sunk 
deeply between the folds of your vagina.

The penis is a mighty sign of your man's lust and that 
lust is yours for the taking over and over again if 
you're willing to praise the symbol of that lust in 
word and deed.

The simplest way to show you care is to seek out his 
penis when he's otherwise occupied. Even though men 
think about sex all the time, sometimes those thoughts 
are submerged beneath day-to-day tasks. But the sexiest 
thing he'll ever experience is the moment when his 
lover walks up to him while he's preoccupied and she 
slips her hands in his pocket and massages his balls.

Don't you think he will remember the event for the rest 
of his life, when, while he's talking to someone from 
work on the phone you kneel down in front of him and 
loosen his belt and open his fly and give him a silent 
blowjob while he has to continue his conversation. Take 
my word as a male, that performing an act like that 
becomes a defining moment in his life, something he'll 
never forget.

You didn't do anything you wouldn't have done later 
that night in bed, but it was the timing of the event, 
and the playfulness, the "penis worship" that he will 
never forget.

There is no reason to ever have to do anything outside 
the home or that might get either of you in trouble, 
but if you want to make one of those defining moments a 
little playfulness in the dark at a movie or concert 
will take his attention immediately.

Even something as simple as laying in bed and caressing 
his penis, and talking to it as if it had a life of its 
own. Let him see you adoring his penis and you have won 
him over.

Continue penis worship from time to time and you'll 
have a satisfied lover, one who is less likely to have 
roving eyes. As an example, my wife always gives me 
great sex and a blowjob the night before I go out of 
town to attend an event related to my work.

We've never actually talked about it, but I have always 
known why she does that, and I look forward to it. I 
know that she is putting her "mark" on me, sending me 
off "satisfied" so if some other woman eyes me while 
I'm on the road, I'll be less likely to be tempted. 

It's wonderful to know that she values me enough to go 
out of her way to leave me sated prior to my trips. 
It's something that keeps the cockles of my heart warm 
while I'm out there negotiating the cold cruel world.

***

I could go into techniques, and how-toos, but if you 
can't figure out what to do with your man's penis on 
your own, then all the instruction in the world won't 
help.

The only real advice I can give you is that you should 
take the time to really get to know your man's sexual 
organ. It will be time well spent. And if you will take 
enough time at least once a week from now until hell 
freezes over to adore his penis, to actually worship it 
during sex play, then you will truly be his goddess and 
he will worship you in return.

One last note: Penis worship still works even after 
menopause, even if sexual intercourse becomes 
impossible due to physical related female problems 
which so often happens after the change in life.

Just because you can have intercourse any longer 
doesn't mean that he's stopped wanting it. A little 
"penis Worship" can go a long way in satisfying your 
man's sex drive under conditions like this. If he's 
still with you it means he wants to be. If you want him 
to stay faithful, then worship his penis once a week.

***

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