Note: This story was dynamically reformatted for online reading convenience. Yes boys, size does matter. Having said that, one must not forget that there is more than one size. If you have not already guessed, we are talking about the size of man's penis, or a woman's dildo. A question that is frequently asked is whether bigger is better. The answer for that question is sometimes bigger is better but for some women smaller is better, for example under 8 inches. The size a woman desires or prefers is often dependent on her present situation or the activity she is contemplating. If she is considering vaginal intercourse for the first time any penis is probably going to look large and intimidating. If a woman is contemplating anal intercourse she may make her decision based on the size her partner's penis. If she wants to orally stimulate her partner she may prefer a small penis because a large one either causes her to choke or makes her jaw muscles ache. A woman's preference is therefore not necessarily set in stone. Is there a physical bases for some women to prefer a large penis? The answer is YES. A large penis is often large around besides being long. While men may pride themselves on the length of their penis, its circumference is likely of more importance to a woman. A woman's sensitive genital tissues are located around the perimeter of the vagina. These sensitive genital tissues are her clitoris, and its outlying structures, the urethra and urethral and perineal sponges. Even a woman's G-Spot, if she has one, is located within a couple inches of the vaginal orifice. The more pressure that is exerted on these structures the more enjoyable intercourse it might be for a woman. On the other hand, pounding on a woman's cervix may not be pleasant at all for her and can be painful for some women and this is what many of you small cocked men tend to do. You ram away with your tiny little cock and sometimes simply hurt us by smashing you hips against us - you see a man with a huge cock doesn't need to do that. Now let's talk about Men's size. There are many reports on this and clearly none are exact. However, the one thing that is clear is this. The vast majority of Men's penis's are under 6 inches. A womans vagina at "rest" is usually no more than 4 inches in depth and woman's sensitive genital tissues are located around the perimeter of the vagina which is lucky for the majority of small dicked men. However, her vagina can expand width ways and to quite considerable widths (remember we gives birth) and the vagina can extend to around a maximum of 8 inches in length - and no many of you little men have that in your pants do you. Now how many of you little men heard of the "recto-uterine pouch" also known as the Cul De Sac?" Very few I think. It is a good cock pounding here that gives us the deep highly satisfying vaginal orgasms and that requires a good 8 inches plus to achieve - a deep throbbing orgasm that you little men with your little cocks just cant manage to give us. Now most men will measure their penis and tell us how big it is. There are two things you men need to know: 01. We are not really interested in the sound of a big number, many of us rarely even know the real number. What we do is "feel" the real number. 02. Men never honestly measure themselves. They don't know how to measure and they lie. We know that 7.5 inches means under 6. As a result of the desire to be filled, a vaginal ache, that many women experience during sexual arousal, many do desire and enjoy the sensation of having something large stretch to fill their vagina. The larger the object, the more filled and satisfied they feel. Why do you men think it is that your wives / girlfriends choose to buy / use large dildos and engaging in vaginal fisting. If your little cock is what she has available why does she go out and buy a dildo twice the size of your cock - think about it! As a result of experimentation and experience women find their orgasms are more intense when their vagina is filled to capacity. They likely start out with a single finger or a small dildo but find they do not fulfill their desire to be filled as well as something larger. And they also likely move on from your little cock to a large dildo then move from that to a REAL large cock. It really isnt difficult for a woman in this day and age, a happily married woman even, going out and finding something to satisfy her physical needs. The hours you men spend out of the home, those little business trips she takes, those nights out with the girls, those special holidays away - you do it and so do we. Some women prefer a large penis for psychological reasons. Since a man with a large penis is often seen as more manly, the woman who attracts his attention is often seen as more womanly and desirable. A woman may perceive her position in society is better if her partner is well endowed. She may feel she has bested her peers. A woman may find the sight of a large penis visually stimulating as well. Many women are fascinated with penises. Their fascination often has nothing to do with size. Many women enjoy seeing and feeling their partner's penis becoming erect in their hand or mouth. Some mothers of infant and young boys love their son's little penis and like to look at and even touch it. (This is likely the result of curiosity more than sexual desire. It may also be the result of socialized admiration of the penis. In addition, she may not be able to explore her adult male partner's genitals so thoroughly.) Some lesbians are also fascinated with penises. They may not desire their partner to have a real one, but some do seek out male partners to fulfill their curiosity. One must keep in mind the brain is after all our largest sex organ. Of course some women prefer a small penis. As mentioned above a large penis can cause a woman to experience discomfort when performing fellatio. A woman may desire to perform fellatio immensely but finds it is too taxing when her partner has an averaged sized penis, let alone a large one. The physical discomfort outweighs the emotional pleasure and benefit. Some women will only orally stimulate their partner's penis when it is flaccid or in the process of becoming erect. A large penis can also cause discomfort during anal and vaginal intercourse. A woman who enjoys anal intercourse may prefer a small penis as it is easier for her to accommodate within her body. Women who are afraid of losing some of their vaginal muscle tone, commonly called becoming "loose" may not want a partner with a large penis. Some argue that size does not matter. If this is the case, what happens to all those giant sized dildos sold in adult novelty stores? Do adult mail order businesses stock a product that does not sell? In Dickinson's book Atlas of Human Sex Anatomy there are illustrations that depict old dildos that are up to three inches (7.6cm) in diameter. I think simple curiosity compels many women to seek out objects larger than your average sized penis. It may be the rumors of the increased pleasures that pique her curiosity. For some it is the challenge of finding out if they can really insert something so large into their vagina, a means of testing the limits of their body. While it is curiosity that motivates them, pleasure is what keeps their attention. In the end does the size of a man's penis really matter to his partner when she is choosing a mate? The answer is no, at least for the vast majority of women. Most women do not choose a partner based solely on the size of his penis. What you have to keep in mind is, if women were only interested in the size of a man's penis, it would be less taxing on them to just go out and buy, or create, a dildo of the size they desired. Very few women place penis size on the top of their list when choosing a partner, even those who prefer a large or small penis for physical or psychological reasons. BUT where real sexual pleasure is concerned, most women crave and fantasise about huge cocks and most men just don't have that available. Whilst you are pumping away with that little 5 inch weedy penis and thinking you are a sex god, we are either working out the shopping list, thinking about what the kids need for school or very often wishing and fantasising that we had a big buck with at least 12 inches ramming into us (but only needing to ram 8 or 9 into us) and something the girth of a coca cola tin - and yes, there are quite a few around. Hence the large dildo she owns which is thicker and at least 2 inches and more bigger than yours - and that secret boyriend or boyfriends she has to really satisfy her needs - and although not necessarily the case, often big strong black men with cocks longer and thicker than your arm. sizequeen41@yahoo.com