Some Philosophical Thoughts on Giving Head This journal is from Madeline's growing collection of journals at Madeline's YesRoom (http://www.yesroom.com). In addition to more journals, you can find erotic stories and softcore site reviews at Madeline's YesRoom. Enjoy! ********************** Some Philosophical Thoughts on Giving Head by Madeline 1 May 1996 This journal may be reposted to usenet and the web under the following conditions: (1) No fee is charged to view the journal, (2) a link to Madeline's YesRoom (http://www.yesroom.com) is included, (3) Madeline is e-mailed at madeline@yesroom.com informing her of the repost, and (4) the text is not altered, including this copyright notice. Thanks! -- Madeline ********************** Ever since I can remember, I've been of the firm opinion that the key to giving great head lies in a person's attitude, not raw technique. The first time that I gave head, I certainly didn't have much of a technique. But my enthusiasm and attentiveness to my then-lover's reactions easily made up for my inexperience. I have retained that attitude about giving head over the years, thus giving me the opportunity and motivation to develop my technique. I'm now quite pleased to regard giving great head as one of my many talents. ;-) Yes, really, I love giving head. I love slowly kissing down a man's side, torturing him with the knowledge of what I am going to do with him. I love the feel of his cock in my hand as I slowly lick the head. I love taking his cock into my mouth, rolling my tongue over the head, licking and sucking every inch of it. I love the feel of a man's hand gently resting in my hair and the sound of his breathing as I bring him closer to orgasm. I love making him him explode in pleasure in my mouth and swallowing every drop of cum. For me, giving head isn't my duty as a lover. It isn't about selflessly giving myself to my lover. I don't believe in duty or selfless giving, particularly not in sex. It is my own selfish pleasure and desire that motivates me. It is my desire for complete control over my lover's pleasure, to be the one to drive him to the heights of sensuous feeling. I want him to ache for the feel of my warm, wet mouth wrapped around his cock. But I want more than control. Giving head is a way for me to make all my abstract feelings about my lover concrete. I don't just suck cock, I make love to it. Every pleasure that I give with my lips, my tongue, my hands is the ultimate expression of emotions ranging from pure lust and passion to love. This pleasure that I get out of the control and expression aspects of giving head serve a higher purpose, namely a reminder of my nature as a highly sexual creature. It is an acknowledgement to myself that I'm a sexy, sensual person. Knowing that I have the capacity to drive a man wild with the touch of my lips and tongue on his cock gives me an amazing feeling of sexual power. I love it. In order to get this sort of purely selfish pleasure out of giving head, a person has got to already have a sense of their own sexual power and autonomy. A woman must regard herself as a sexual creature. She must be able to freely enjoy the sensuous pleasures of the flesh. She must feel completely in control of her sex life, not driven by obligation to perform sexual acts. Whenever I didn't have these underlying attitudes about sex, my lust for giving head inevitably disappeared. Thank goodness I have recovered from that state of mind! Once again I relish the thought of giving head, particularly to a rock-hard, freshly-showered cock. I begin to salivate just at the thought of taking my lover's cock in my mouth, slowly making love to it until the motions of my lips and tongue drive him to explode. But I guess that that's a subject for another fantasy... ********************** Madeline madeline@yesroom.com Madeline's YesRoom http://www.yesroom.com Madeline's YesRoom offers high-quality erotic stories, Madeline's journals, softcore site reviews, erotic penpals, and chat. Updated daily!