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 There are many things to consider about planning a cuckold marriage.  A
great deal of thought must go into every detail if an open relationship
succeeds.  Naturally these ideas usually begin with the husband.  At one
point in his life he may have been exposed to stories or videos dealing
with the subject of cuckolding.

   The ideas may swarm around his head for months or even years before he
brings up the subject to his wife.  Even though his wife maybe gorgeous,
their sex life may have become stale after a few years of marriage. 
Perhaps the husband has noticed his wife giving attention to a handsome
hunk at the store or while a night out dancing.

   This is the first opportunity for the husband to find out his wife's
interests.  The husband might bring up the subject of other men to his wife
perhaps after a visit to a local club.  See how she reacts.  Ask her right
out if she found a certain guy attractive.  She might be shy or too
hesitant to give him an answer but at least hubby planted the first seeds
of her curiosity.

   Hubby might want to tease her during sex.  Yell her how attractive you
find her.  Tell her how much you love her.  Tell her it's alright if she
wants to open up about other men.  Ask questions.  Ask her what type of men
turn her on sexually.  Again, she might not respond to these questions the
first time.  Be patient with her.

   It may take a series of nights or weeks before his wife opens up.  This
is hubbies chance to bring up black men.  You might be surprised to learn
she has always fantasized about it.  Take it slow.  Ask questions during
sex if possible.  You might want to begin the conversation by telling her
you think it would be hot to see her interacting with a black man.  When
she questions you, suggest that you wouldn't mind seeing her flirt with a
black guy the next time your out at a club.  If she says no you want to
back off immediately.  If your lucky she will respond by having hot sex
with you while she fantasizes about the idea.

   If you've made it this far and she is curious you want to plan a night
out.  Help her pick out a sexy dress.  Encourage her to wear something
revealing.  Something that will attract other men.  Have fun with it.  Tell
her how excited you are to see how other men react.  Once she is dressed
make sure you tell her how attractive she looks and how much you love her.

   If you do your homework you should be able to find a good club where
single black men hang out.  Believe me.  They are always looking for white
woman and married white woman won't stop them from hitting on your wife. 
They only want clean white pussy and they know your wife will provide all
they want.

   You may get lucky the first night or perhaps just having the wife out
there making herself appear available will break down the barriers.  If you
don't succeed the first night, go home and have wild sex with her and tell
her how hot she looked at the club tonight.

   Now regardless if it's the first night or so on, one your wife finds a
black man she finds interesting, tell her to invite him over to your table
for a drink.  She may have already danced with this man so be really
friendly but keep your distance.  Allow her to get acquainted with him. 
You should have already planned the scenario for the evening.  Offer to buy
him another drink if things are going well.  You'll see the look in her
eyes.  If you know your wife you will know she is attracted to this man.

   Join in on the conversation whenever your mentioned in the conversation.
If he's had experience this black man might ask both of you questions like
what you are seeking.  Allow your wife to make the first reply.  Your wife
may give him a variety of answers depending on how attracted she is to this
man.  Naturally finding the right black bull for your wife on the first
night is going to be rare but it happens.

   Encourage them to dance again.  Allow them to have their own time
together to talk.  Take long slow walks to and from the bathroom to allow
them to get better acquainted.  Both your wife and the bull might open up
in ways you never expected.  I know I've have bulls ask men what I really
want once my husband disappeared to the men's room.

   Don't be surprised if when you come back from the bathroom that your
wife out on the dance floor with him.  Don't be alarmed.  Things must be
going good.  Watch their movements.  If it's a slow dance keep a close eye
on them.  How tight is he holding your wife.  Are they trying to dance in a
dark corner.  You might even see a kiss.  Don't be mad.  After all, this is
what you wanted.

   I've had black men hold my hand walking back from the dance floor.  My
husband always took notice of this and knew my interests right away.  With
a first time couple the husband will assume his wife is having a good time.
Remember to always allow her to take things at her own speed.

   Your wife may have informed the bull that she is available.  She may
have told him she has to think it through or perhaps she wants to make a
date with him in the near future.  In some rare circumstances your wife
might speak to you alone and ask your opinion about getting a room for the
night.  If this happens you want to encourage her but tell her she has no
obligation to have sex with this man unless she is totally comfortable.

   Let's just say this is an average case and your wife had to give it more
thought.  She exchanged phone numbers with the bull and perhaps informed
him she would call him and let her know her plans.  Encourage her to call
him and don't spy on the conversation.  Allow them to talk freely.

   Now keep in mind you have to explain your whole idea of wanted to watch
them and see how she responds.  A good cuckold relationship will turn into
a three-way partnership in some circumstances.  The wife may feel more
comfortable having sex with one bull rather than screwing around with
different men.  This works out for the better in most marriages that are
strong and well established.

   The first date is planned.  Encourage your wife to wear something
revealing and hot.  There are many shops that cater to couples into
swinging.  High heels are always a nice touch.  If your wife is endowed
make sure she picks out something to enhance her endowment.

   The bull was invited to your house.  Keep your distance but be very
friendly.  You might want to see what you and him have in common.  Perhaps
about football or basketball.  Strike up a good conversation with him to
get to know him better.



   Your wife may have the whole evening planned out including diner for her
new friend.  Perhaps a few drinks, watching the television or having music
on down low.  Allow them their space.  The loveseat or sofa with you a
short distance away on another chair works fine.  Make those frequent trips
out of the room and try to stay away as long as you can.  This will allow
them to get cozy and better acquainted.

   As the evening progresses the room may darken if not already.  Keep the
volume of that TV low if it happens to be on.  You want to create a
romantic setting for them and allow them to be as comfortable as possible.
Never ask them, "OK, when are you going to have sexy?" for an example.  Let
everything play out naturally.

   I've seen couples plan ahead where they had taken erotic photos of the
wife dressed in lingerie or even naked and having her sit on the sofa with
a notebook showing her potential bull the photo albums you took of her. 
It's a great way to break the ice.  Allowing him to see her naked in sexy
poses.  After all, you want him to feel as comfortable as possible knowing
your perfectly fine with everything that going on.

   At this point your wife and her bull are very stimulated.  You may
notice the bulge in his pants and the way he's looking at your wife.  He
may have his hands somewhere at this time.  Perhaps around her shoulder or
even on her thigh.  I've had bulls reach around my head and drop their hand
inside my dress to play with a tit.  Allow them to kiss and don't be
shocked if you see her rubbing his leg or even the bulge you noticed.

   A variety of things may happen.  If the bull is experienced he may start
asking you questions while caressing your wife.  He may ask you if it turns
you seeing him with your wife just so your wife hears your response.  Be
prepared to answer any other question he may have for you.  An experienced
bull will make you spill your guts out in front of your wife just so she
doesn't feel any guilt.

   Allow them to move at their own pace.  He may begin undressing her right
there in the living room or he may want to take her into the bedroom.  A
smart bull will make sure your coming along to watch the show.  After all,
this is what a three-way cuckold relationship is all about.  Believe me,
the bull has already sized up your wife and normally he has plans to see
her again and again.  He's going to want to make a good impression on your
wife tonight and make sure your enjoying yourself as well.

   Once things get started an experienced bull will make sure that you can
see everything that's taking place.  If your wife is on her knees sucking
his cock he will have her turn a bit so your able to see.  An experience
bull is always well hung.  This is why he got into the lifestyle in the
first place.  Whatever is taking place just sit back and enjoy the scene.
Never interfere by saying silly things.  Keep your mouth shut unless your
spoken too at this point.

   In most circumstances a condom will be used the first night of sex. 
Once the first copulation is complete the bull may ask you another series
of questions.  He may even ask you to join in depending of the
circumstances.  An experienced bull will recognize the fact that you may
want to touch and caress your wife after she has been serviced by him. 
After all he want o you be happy with the whole situation in general.  This
will allow him a better advantage with your wife.

   If all goes well during that first night you want to spend time with
your wife and see how she felt and how she wants to proceed further.  She
will want to hear your thoughts first in many cases.  She wants to make
sure you are totally comfortable and that you have no regrets about going
further.  If you want her to continue fucking this bull you have to be very
open and honest about everything.  Encourage her.  Tell her your looking
forward to her next date with him.  Encourage her to call him as frequently
as she pleases.

   If she desires this man she will take you up on your offer.  Depending
on her sex drive she may want to see him the following weekend.  Try to
refrain from having sex with her.  You want her as horny as possible for
him.  Makes excuses if you have to like your too tired or have a lot on
your mind about work or something of that nature.  Remind her that her bull
is coming over and will satisfy her needs.  She will soon get those
thoughts planted in her head and look forward to having him come over on a
regular basis.

   Have frequent discussions with your wife.  If it's your desire to become
her cuckold you must explain the way you feel to your wife.  Tell her you
knew this guy is much more endowed than you.  Let her know that your.  Make
sure that she knows you are aware that you absolutely enjoy watching him
making love to your wife.

   Discuses other things with her.  Black me love fucking bareback. 
Encourage her to putting the condoms away and allow him to cum inside her
pussy.  Allow her to go on a date alone with him.  Have her call you and
tell you in detail of what's going on.  Make sure she always involves you
in some manor.

   Let's say they have been dating now for several months.  Hopefully by
this time you've backed off almost completely from having sex with your
wife.  He's been screwing your wife bareback.  His cum will be absorbed
into her body and her hormones will go to work from there.  She will
unknowing crave sex from him.  He will become the Alfa-beta male in the
relationship.  You may see changes on the way she greats him.  She will
begin treating him like her boyfriend.  Her lover.  In a strong marriage
your still her husband and always will be her husband.  Her pussy will now
belong to him and she will let you know it.

   I've seen everything in relationships with black bulls.  Their going to
test your wife.  He may encourage your wife to stop taking birth control.
It's not that she wants his black baby, she only wants to please his sexual
desires.  She may go along with his wishes not telling you of her plans. 
Believe me, no sane white woman is going to have black babies just for the
sack of having them.  She just might be drawn over the edge with the idea
of fantasy breeding.

   She might tell you of her plan.  If she does be very honest with her. 
If your Ok with it than tell you so.  Remember, her bull is going to have
full control of your wife's mind in bed.  She maybe in the middle of having
orgasms with him in the heat of passion.  At some point they'll ask her if
she wants his baby.  Black men love doing this.  She may respond with a
simple yes and he'll have her repeat it.  For any reason your wife gets
knocked up by him he will remind her that she said she wanted his baby so
the blame won't be on him.

   I've seen relationships like these continue for years.  I've been in
them and love my husband very much.  I love giving advice to new couples.
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