Note: This story was dynamically reformatted for online reading convenience. TAMHEED Yeh sirf kahanian hain magar in kahanion ki bunyad haqiqat par mabni hain. In kahaniyon main who sab kuch likhne ke koshish ki gai hai jo mulk Pakistan main ho raha hai. Jinsi be rah ravi har tabqe main pai jati hai serf andaz mukhtalif hai. Ameer, mutawasat, aur ghareeb gharana ho ya baat gaon ya sahar ki ho, jinsi be rah ravi ne har jagah apna andaz dikhaya hai. Kahain khule haal ho rahi hai aur kahain chori chupe ho rahi hai magar ho rahi hai. Pakistani muashere (culture) main in batoon ko sub chupate hain. Oopar se sub namazi aur perhaizgar nazar aate hain mugar under se sub nange hain. Jab baat apne ghar ki hoti hai to "meri bachi" kehte hue nazar aate hain aur jab baat kise aur ki beti ke hoti hai to dil main sochte hain ke "saali ke mamme bare (big) ho rahe hain". Magar munh se sab "beti" he kehte hain chahe apni beti ho ya doosre ke! Agar muqa mile to hath bhi pher dete hain, sar par nahin, mammon par! MERA TAARRUF Main bunyadi toor par eik psychologist hoon. Mera taaluq Karachi se hai. Main aaj kal eik NGO ke saath kaam kar rahi hoon. Mujhe is muashere main har tabqe main kaam kerne ka mauqa mila hai. Ameer, gharib, darmiyana, gaon (village) ho ke shahar (city), har jagah kaam kiya hai main ne. Mera kaam larkiyon be falah aur behbood karna hai. Un ke taaleem (education) meri NGO ka asal kaam hai. Is sislile main mujhe har tabqe ki larkiyon se milne ka mauqa milta hai. In larkiyon ka pehla interview lena, in ko taaleem ki taraf bulana, in ki maan aur baap ko paisa dena aur school main dakhla mere kaam hain. Ghareeb aur mutawasat gharane ki larkiyaan chahte hain ke wo aage parh sakain aur kuch ban kar dikhaain. Jab ke ameer tabqe ke larkiyaan bahut confused hain. Un ko har mauqa hai magar phir bhi kuch kar nahi saktain. Eik baat sub main common hai. Sub main confidense ki kami hai. Is confidense ki kami ki wajah se loog in se "faida" uthate hain. In loogon main ziada tar who loog hain jin par ghar wale bharosa karte hain. In main baap, bhai, chaha, khaloo, dada, phopha, mamoon, cousin, whagahira whaghaira shaamil hain. Aur loogon main aas paas ke muhalle (neighbourhood) waale aur wo loug jin par ghar waale aankhain band kar ke bharoosa karte hain. In loogoon maim aziz, rishte daar, duur aur pass ke doost (family friends) shamil hain. Ghar ke naukar bhi is list main shaamil hain kas kar wo naukar jo barsoon se ghar main kaam kar rahe hain. In par nazar rakhne chahiye kiyoon ke yeh naukar bhi kabhi kabhi "kaam" dikha jate hain. Kuch larkiyan hamare NGO ke kaam se mutassir (impress) ho kar hamare NGO ke saath kaam shroo kar deti hain. Mujhe in larkiyoon se qareeb hone ka mauqa mila. Yeh sab kahaniyaan in he larkiyoon ki kahaniyaan hain. Waise to yeh sab kahaniyaan hain magar in kahaniyoon ki bunyad yeh larkiyaan hain. In larkiyoon ke halaat sun kar mera to dimagh ghoom giya. Main to sooch bhi na sakti thi ke yeh sub kuch bhi hamare muashre main ho sakta hai. Main ab bhi is hi NGO main kaam karti hoon aur ab bhi kai kahaniyaan mere saamne aati hain. Yeh tamaam kahaniyaan jo aap is web page se le kar parhain ge wo asal main sub asal waaqaiat par mabni hain bus main ne kuch "changes" kar diye hain aur thora mirch masala laga diya hai keh sub parhne waale in kahaniyoon ko poora parhain aur apni bachiyoon ko in darindoon se bachaain. Meri yeh kahaniyaan is web page par is liye rakhi hain kiyoon ke main gumnaam rehna c hahte hoon. Mera e-mail address hai nailaaleem@gmail.com aap loog chahain to mujh se rabta kar sakte hain. Mera naam naila nahi hai, just in case you are wondering. This is because if my NGO finds out that I am publishing these stories on the web than I may loose my job that is paying really well. Naila Aleem