Subject: P&W Digest archive/v1n17 Date: Wed, 7 Dec 88 14:46:51 EDT Perverts and Weirdos Digest, v.1 #17 (ROT13) Sat Oct 22 16:28:45 EDT 1988 WARNING: This digest may contain sexually explicit material. Do not decrypt it if you find this type of material offensive. Contributions: uunet!inco!alembic!pwdigest Comments: uunet!inco!alembic!mack Mailing List requests: uunet!inco!alembic!pwdigest-request You can request back-issues of the Digest, but first you need to read the introductory posting in alt.sex or soc.singles. You can request a copy of the introduction by sending mail to: uunet!inco!alembic!pwissue with the word "Intro" on the subject line. Internet mailers should try: alembic!pwdigest@inco.uu.net alembic!mack@inco.uu.net etc. To decrypt from within a newsreader: Newsreader Command --------- ------- readnews,vnews 'D' vn 'z' rn 'x' or 'CTRL-X' Gnews 'x' (see the manual) notes '%' or 'R' rnews (Gnumacs) ^C^R ANU NEWS (VMS) READ/ROT13 To decrypt a stored file: tr "[a-m][n-z][A-M][N-Z]" "[n-z][a-m][N-Z][A-M]" <input >output or /usr/lib/news/caesar 13 <input-file >output-file -- dm ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Date: Sun, 25 Sep 88 21:51:04 edt From: agent86 Subject: Re: A Submissive Submission Contact: agent86 > If any of you Women out there would like an E-Mail slave, I bet > we could work something out...... I'm also looking for an e-mail mistress. I had one, but since I don't have a lot of money, I (and many others) got abandoned. Are there any other women out there who wish to be served? If so, please contact agent86. ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Date: Mon, 26 Sep 88 14:08:12 PDT From: David Subject: Control Devices Re: Shockers How about a device to train a man not to become erect? A simple strap around the base of the penis, containing a switch the closes when the strap is stretched by a growing erection. When the switch closes, a shock is administered to the testicles. The electronics and battery could rest under- neath the scrotum. How long would the training take? ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Date: Mon, 26 Sep 88 16:24:31 edt From: A Man Subject: from aman (TV Date Followup) Keywords: crossdressing, self bondage, enemas. Hello again. This is my second letter to PWD, my first describing my upcoming TV date with a new friend. In that letter, I promised I would write back and describe the date, which is the first half of this letter. The second half of this letter is an open reply to fourpint regarding his letter in PWD#15. If you remember, our hero was left getting into a VERY short electric blue spandex mini-skirt for a night on the town. Well, a skirt like that deserves a knockout accompaniment, so I wore my highest (6") spike heeled sandals, a black silk blouse, a tight corset to push out some curves, and a set of 36C bra inserts. Added were some black lace stockings, and a pair of (removable) pink panties. Well, the date went great. We went to one of the crossdressing bars in town, and had a few drinks and a few laughs. Since it was a first date, we started out slowly and easily. He loved my outfit, especially when I reached up under my skirt and slowly, sexily removed my panties. You should have seen the look on his face. Well, always one to fall for flattery, and being very exhibitionistic, I decided to stage a small fashion show for him in a deserted parking lot nearby. While the camera clicked, various poses were struck, and various pieces of clothing came off - including the skirt. We both had a great time. Our next date will probably be a little more intimate, and with more showing off. Maybe this one will be inside, so I can go a little more wild with the fashions. I can't wait! To fourpint: it's amazing how similar our tastes are in fetish fun. I am also a fan of enemas and self bondage (in addition to crossdressing). In fact, since this article and a new piece of bondage gear arrived today, I am going to go home and have one HELLUVA time. The new gear is a trainer. If you are not familiar with a trainer, it is a full head harness with lots of straps to fit fully around the head and hold in a large gag. On mine, the gag is shaped like a 4" cock, but they come in all shapes and sizes. All the straps lock, of course. I am interested in hearing from people with new ideas for self bondage. Since I currently don't have a girlfriend (or boyfriend) into bondage, I have to practice alone. So far, the most creative idea I have used is this. Take the keys to you handcuffs (or whatever will be your LAST piece of bondage gear to put on), and freeze them inside a bottle of water. When you are ready, take the bottle out of the freezer, and put it somewhere accessible but safe. Then, lock yourself up as tight as you want. Voila: you are STUCK! until the ice melts. The bigger the bottle, the longer the bondage. My favorite bottle is a one-pint plastic bottle with a wide mouth. It locks me in for about 5-6 hours. Unfortunately, I don't have one in the freezer today, so I will have to improvise. Lately, I have been experimenting with putting the keys somewhere difficult, but not impossible to get to, like fourpint described. One of my thoughts was in the mailbox outside. However, I am not sure I want to take my exhibitionism that far. Tonights activities will probably include my new trainer, nipple clamps (boy, those japanese sewing clamps hurt so good!), garter belt, stockings, high heels, some lingerie, and an overnighter (locked together thigh and hand cuffs - similar to a spanking belt without the waist and crotch straps). Optional items are an enema and by home-made chastity belt. This is a locking waist strap with a 6" butt plug locked to it with chains. It is always fun to wear. I'll write back again soon, and tell you all how it went. P.S.: Please keep PWD coming. It is one source of great entertainment in an otherwise boring network! -A Man ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Date: 25 SEP 88 14:58 MST From: Anonymous <inco!alembic!bill1> Subject: Go for it. Contact: bill1 Open notes: To Greg: Yes please provide more information on Cabela's. Maybe you should E-Mail it to me, since I suspect that it is not really of general interest. To the moderator: You are right to warn of the safety dangers of shockers. People that don't know what they are doing ought to be VERY carefull of shockers. As I had said, I am unimpressed with the safety aspects of comercial units. Somebody here was telling me that they would be tempted to write to Robert and Susan, except that if they did so the note would have their actual return address on it. (Some people here are quite paranoid, given the area) Is there any chance that you could set up a contact service that is just like the one that you have, except that you cull out the mail headers before you send the message on? While I think I can maintain reasonable anonimity in replying, I suspect that there are many people that would be more willing to reply if the headers were removed. [[ Sorry, but this is not possible. I don't forward contact postings by hand, it's done automatically. I never even see them. I haven't figured out a workable double-blind contact mechanism yet. -dm ]] To Sunny Kirsten: Your posting did not give a contact name? How does one get ahold of you via E-Mail? [[ Afraid that was my fault. I cut out the email address out of habit. I don't have Sunny's address. -dm ]] To the group: I am quite pleased to notice that there was significant response to my posting. (I still don't know if there is general interest, but it is clear that it struck a note of interest with some folks). A general note that I should make here, to head off a common question: No, I am not really interested in going together with others as a commericial operation. I am quite willing to talk over design with other people, and can offer suggestions (In fact am quite willing) and I love to hear the ideas and experiences of other people. (And if you offer me one, then I might be quite willing to buy one) But I am not really interested in starting production of any such item. I could be talked into helping set up such equipment, but not for money. Robert and Susan asked at the end of one of their notes whether or not I used such items for "self bondage" (or some such question, I don't have it here). The answer is yes, and brings up the subject of self bondage, and the use of shockers in it. To me there is a major problem with self bondage, in that either I can get out at any time so that there is not any real excitement, or I am in real danger of not being able to get out at all. While I much prefer bondage to a mistress, I am afraid that I do resort to self bondage sometimes. I would love to be able to set up computer controlled self bondage session, and it would not be hard to set up a shocker and other "toys" to be driven by an RS232 interface so that it could be driven by any home PC. However, I don't do so because I am not sure that this could be done without a real safety problem. I just can't bring myself to trust the total dependabilty of electronics with my life or health. If anybody would like to talk over details of putting together equipment that can survive single component or connection failure without risking health, I am quite interested. How do other people out there handle the issue of ease of escape from self bondage? Is there any equipment out there that makes this any easier? Has anybody else out there done anything with controlling shockers from decoded touch-tone(R) signals? Hooked up to an answering machine, they allow last minute "adjustment" of one's slave. Replaying some tapes on a tape-recorder (with an audio-out jack attached) would allow a slave a chance to re-live some of their most memorable calls when they practice self bondage. -bill ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Date: Tue, 4 Oct 1988 0:30:42 PDT From: Rick Subject: Anal Sex for Beginner's Contact: RICK7 About KAT's advice about anal sex, there's psychological stuff she didn't talk about. One problem with sliding something in is that you're natural reaction is to hold your anus tight. To loosen up, the easiest thing to do is to "push" against what you're putting in even though that seems wrong at first. It took some practice for me to get used to the back stroke, too. Sliding something in always feels nice, but sliding something out was always too reminiscent of shitting for me (not a turn-on in my book). As I got used to it, I got rid of this association and any guilt feelings connected to it. I still like to take it very slow with something in my ass though, without much of a vigorous fucking motion. I don't think I'd enjoy being fucked by another man. In pornography you see plenty of wild butt-fucking without a care, but normally it's different. I once had a girl friend who used to like to masturbate lying face down, with me in her ass. I was always glad to oblige, but it wasn't much fun for me, because I always had to be real careful about hurting her. I would hold still and let her hump up and down on her hand, only moving about an inch. For some things, it would be nice to have a smaller penis :-). The first time you do it with someone, why don't you try it on top? That way you can control the motion and not hurt yourself. Don't be bashful about being self-indulgent, at least not the first time. Just tell him this one's for you and don't bother trying to make him come. You can promise to indulge him some other time. One of the best sessions I've had was the time when I was lying face up with a vibrator in my ass while my girlfreind was on top fucking me. I had to handle the vibrator myself, because she was too timid about trying to slide it in (this one couldn't imagine putting something that big in your ass). She said she liked to sit still and feel my cock vibrating when I pressed the vibrator against my prostate. I think the more fun things to do are a little stranger than just imitating fucking. Maybe oral sex with a dildo sliding into your ass? I've never had much fun with the scenario where you go about your normal business with something in your ass. It seems nice in fantasy, but unless you find doing your homework exciting, the associations are all wrong. If you want to do something for a half hour or so during an anal stretching exercise, just masturbate *slow*... or just read or watch something that excites you. Another thing you should know is that it's easiest to smart small and work your way up to larger sizes. What you want is a set of dildo's of different diameters, maybe starting as small as half an inch. Or you could just try something with a round tip and a very gradual point that you can put in real slow. The round tip is nice also because it should come out looking cleaner. Like I said before, I don't like any associations with shit or shitting in my anal sex. It's good to do it in the bathtub or shower where you can clean up quick if you have any little problems. And unlike the Marquis de Sade, I think you should use the toliet first, to make some room inside to play in :-). ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Date: Wed, 5 Oct 88 02:47:50 EDT From: RepoMan Subject: Mmf! Mmmm! Contact:repoman Mmf gmmf ggmm mmh nnh mm mm!! [Uh-oh, forgot to take the gag out... there, that's much better...] Yet another bondage enthusiast unable to resist the lure of posting to the P&W Digest. I've archived issues 1 through 15, and was especially turned on by Robert & Susan's postings. Whew! I'd be one happy man if I had a wife like Susan! It's especially impressive how much fun they seem to have without the whole thing turning into a degrading humiliation ritual. Obviously, there's some naughtiness involved, but they both maintain their dignity, even when engaging in activities truly worthy of the P&W label. Keep those postings coming, folks! I've been into bondage for a long, long time. Auto-erotica, masturbating while bound, was something I used to do a fair amount (for special occasions mostly, like when I had the house to myself). I really got into that this summer, when I was working in a part of the country to which I'd never been before, in a single apartment, in which I could get as zany as I wanted with no fear whatsoever of being discovered. It got kind of old fairly quickly, though, and I gave it up, settling for plain old masturba- tion instead. But for a while there I was using collars, ropes, extension cords (if you're ever in need of a quickie and have no supplies, extension cords work really well!), and my one pair of handcuffs. Some fun! I've eased off on that action, though, partially because it gets kind of boring unless you invest in novel equipment every so often (which I'm not situated to do at the moment), and partially because I'm somewhat con- cerned about this fetish becoming too powerful. If I ever reach the point where I'm incapable of having an orgasm without being bound, that will be going entirely too far. There's no guarantee, after all, that any of my partners will be into this whole scene, and it would be a drag if I had to restrict myself to SOs with my particular kink... A couple of questions for all you P&W types out there: are there many of you who walk both sides of the D&S street? Being only a slave or only a master would seem to me to be unnecessarily restrictive; after all, binding and being bound both have their own distinctive charms. Yet most of the literature talks about "submissives" and "dominants" as exclusive categories. Are there many other slave/masters out there? (And anyone need a relatively inexperienced but willing slave or master? Repoman's the name, B&D's the game!) Also, I've read all the bondage postings, and I have yet to hear of anyone using any equipment more complex that Susan's spanking belt. I've looked at the Centurion {sp?} catalogs of armbinders and body binders, as well as the Sweet Gwendoline catalogs. Now THAT stuff looks like fun! Full- size straitjackets, soft black leather arm binders for trapping the arms behind the back, chest harnesses with neck and chest straps, as tightly as you like; chastity belts with wrist cuffs attached; helmets with included dildo gags; thigh and ankle cuffs, locking or buckling; breast harnesses with straps in back for more flexible arrangements; and then some! We're talking expensive here, of course; the things are custom- made to fit the slave wearer. Some of the catalogs are full-color, with dynamite photos; some very nice black-and-white drawings are included too. And I've only owned (and masturbated while reading) the Armbinders catalog. They also have catalogs about chastity belts, gags & helmets, penis res- traints (I'd like to look at that one!), and on and on. (Oh, by the way, when I said "expensive" I meant "$650+ for full-body lace-up harnesses custom-made to fit, with more straps and leather than your slave will know what to do with." A serious way to spend a LOT of disposable income!) Is there anyone out there who has a wardrobe of this stuff, and if there is, would they tell us about it? (Or me, at least!) Sorry I don't have an address for Centurian {sp? not sure whether it's an "a" or an "o"}, but you can probably find their catalogs in any good prn (I mean porn) boutique. Oh, did anyone ever supply an address for Society of Janus? I'd like to get in touch with them folks... just for kicks... I must say I'm glad most of us bondage types aren't into serious pain. Light whipping, OK; bruises, no. Good for us. We have SOME standards, at least :-) Sorry I haven't got any excellent stories, but I haven't yet found a really enthusiastic and creative partner in bondage, and my jack-off tales aren't in the same league with those of R&S, so I'll save the bandwidth for now. But hey, get in touch, and maybe we can produce some more entries for this delectable digest! Keep on fuckin'! -- RepoMan ------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------ End of Perverts and Weirdos Digest ************************ -------