Dear Dr. Pederos: Fuddy-Duddy Mom by Pederos (nosex) Dear Dr. Pederos, I am a 34 year-old mother who has a son who masturbates constantly. I'm guessing he probably plays with his pecker 20-30 times A DAY! He complains that he doesn't get any sex from anyone, and that he's lonely. The problem is that he's only 8 years old, but the biggest problem is that he is attracted to adult MEN. I am extremely confused about this because I think it's bizarre for someone that young to want sex, and from MEN to boot. I guess I just haven't accepted this new sexual liberation of children. Children are innocent and shouldn't be thinking about sex until they're of age. But a part of me is trying to break free from this line of thinking. HELP! Signed, Fuddy-Duddy Mom Dear Fuddy-Duddy Mom, The idea that children are "innocent" is silly, antiquated adultist thinking not backed up by science and common sense. Children are intensely sexual creatures and want the affection and great feelings that come with sex. Children are unashamed of their beautiful nakedness until they are taught that it's "shameful", "dirty", "ungodly", "sinful"....the list goes on into infinity. The fact is, children have been freed from long-constructed mental cages behind which they were imprisoned by the old society, a society that was decaying in so many ways anyway. Children love to stimulate their own genitalia and those of others, and this idea that they "cannot consent" to sex is, to put it bluntly, bullshit. The idea that kids are unable to consent to sex served only one purpose: enslavement. It was formulated and enforced to keep children from being able to free themselves of unnecessary and unrealistic hang-ups about sex and their bodies so as to make them more pliable and controllable as worker drones when they got old enough to hold a job. Repressing the sexuality of children, and keeping them from having sex with ANYONE they choose, REGARDLESS OF AGE, is absolutely NOTHING BUT CONTROL. After all, if you let kids even as young as 6 or 7 have sex with a grown-up or another child or teenager whenever they want, they might start asking for OTHER rights, like the right to VOTE. Horrors!!! I cannot remember all the stories I've heard, first-hand, from adults who were asked questions by pre-teen children like, "What is your AOA?" (Age Of Attraction), "Do you think I'm sexy?", "Can I touch your penis?" "Can I touch your boobies?", "Wanna play 'house' with me?",etc. When adults wrongly assume that kids aren't "ready" for sex, they repress THEMSELVES, as well. The reason many adult men used to say things like, "look but don't touch" when they saw attractive teen girls between, say, 14-17 years old, is because they KNEW children were attractive and would've pursued sexual relationships with them if the laws had been as relaxed and radical as they are now. Face it, Fuddy-Duddy, your son loves and craves COCK, as well as the affection and fun that goes along with playing with it, tasting it, sucking it, and doing whatever he likes with the semen that emanates from the man's penis. There is NOTHING wrong with this, as long as he FREELY CHOOSES this act. Plus, it's the 21st Century----time to dispense with this homophobia crap once and for all. The fact that a part of you is trying to rid yourself of the thinking that was pounded into your head is the positive first step to FREEING YOURSELF. Your son knows what he likes and wants more of it, and you can be the positive reinforcement in his life that cheers him on and supports him. I mean, what if YOU realized that under these new relaxed and more SANE laws, you could pursue WHOEVER YOU DESIRE!!! You could have a sexual-loving relationship with a child or a teenager WITHOUT ANY REPERCUSSIONS OR CONSEQUENCES, so long as the child or teenager says, "Okay!!", "Yes!", or any other unforced affirmative statement!!!! Imagine the possibilities!!!! The laws against incest have also been abolished!! You could have sexual intercourse with your brother, your father, your uncle, your nephew, or any other consenting male in your family!! Hell, just imagine if your dear 8 year-old son was bi-sexual and wanted to explore YOUR body?!! You are now FREE to go to bed with ANYONE your lustly heart desires!!! And, let's be real here----people who are "crusaders" against homosexuality, incest, or child-adult sex are, 99 times out of 100, trying to repress their own proclivities towards these sexualities. That's why so many "religious" people used to be caught in sex scandals so often. They WANT and DESIRE and LUST AFTER someone of their own gender, a blood relative, or even that gorgeous child they see frolicking at the playground or running naked or semi-naked through the sprinkler!!! So, all I'm saying is: the rules have CHANGED. Be FREE. Be HAPPY. Be CURIOUS. Be SEXUAL, WITHOUT INHIBITION!!! Embrace the new paradigm of sexual freedom and openness! This is what the counterculture of the 60's was REALLY fighting for, and their struggles have accomplished The Great Liberation of 2016!!! Have fun out there! Shed those clothes without shame or regret in all the legal clothing-optional areas, and if you find someone you really want, regardless of age or relation, JUST GO FOR IT! Don't be a "fuddy-duddy" any longer! Be FREE to FUCK and FROLIC!!!! Encourage your baby boy to experiment with dildoes and other safe objects he can insert into his rectum to pleasure himself. If you can find a trustworthy, kind, and gentle man or boy to introduce to your son, then definitely do so! Tell the partner about your boundaries as a parent, too. Let them know what you approve and disapprove of, and that your son is within his rights to say "NO!" to anything he does NOT want to do. In fact, until he's old enough to be alone with a partner, have the boy or man stay over WHILE YOU'RE HOME to make sure your son is both satisfied AND safe! This will keep the partner accountable to you and establish trust. I hope your son has fun exploring the pleasures of sex! I hope YOU, too, find ways to open up your mind to the vast possibilites of your own sexuality! Let your son be your inspiration, and let go of the "fuddy-duddies"!! Yours in Liberation, Dr. Pederos