JL080314.txt <!--ADULTS ONLY--> Subject: {ASS} {RP} Entry for March 14, 2008 - Benefits of Family nudism, open lifestyles {Julie_Love} {M+ F+ m f g+ b+ inc ped bi cons} 2009/09/23 STANDARD DISCLAIMER ------------------- The material herein is fictional and is intended as ADULT entertainment. It contains material of an adult, explicit, SEXUAL nature. It contains themes of incest and underage sexual activities. If you are offended by (or it is illegal for you to read) sexually explicit content or language, please DO NOT read any further. All characters in the story are fictitious; any similarity to any persons, places, individuals or situations is purely coincidental. The author does not necessarily condone nor endorse any of the activities described in this story. (c) Copyright 2010, 2011 Julie ALL Rights Reserved! This material may NOT be reproduced in any form for profit without the written permission of the author. This material may be freely distributed with this notice attached and with credit to the author. This work is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported License (CC-by-nc-nd) ----------------------------------------------- (The original source for this story was from the original Yahoo Blog written by Julie. It has been updated with comments throughout to provide the reader with added information which was not allowed in the Yahoo environment. Please enjoy the story.) ----------------------------------------------- As parents we have a golden opportunity to provide a healthy environment for nakedness in our own home. We encourage family nudity and the closeness that brings to each person with other family members. Young children do not have any sense of modesty, and really don't care who sees them naked. This is the time when the parent can mold their conscience without making them self-conscious of nakedness. We start family nudity with our children from birth. After a diaper change we let our young ones lie on a cover on the floor fully naked and enjoying the freedom. We have a sun room where we usually are in during the day. The warm tile floor and sunbeams are wonderful on your body. Our kids love to play in the room without any clothes on. One benefit of the tile floor is when they get to potty training. You'd be surprised how quickly potty training happens when your toddler/preschooler is allowed to go bare at home. Of course we have some "accidents" but they actually are infrequent and the tile floor makes for quick cleaning too! As a result being naked with each other is not viewed as being abnormal. Going nude during the summer is a lot more comfortable and natural for us all. Our children immediately strip off their clothes as the get inside the house. (Leaving me to pick them up sometimes, but that's ok.) During the winter months we keep the main living area warm & comfortable during cold weather. Our sun room is very popular at this time of the year during the day. One benefit of our family nudism is that we're also teaching our kids that we have to be physically clean. They shower after coming home from school, they have towels that they use on chairs and couches to sit on. As a result I think we have fewer colds in our family. That's a natural result of our children's efforts at being clean. In our family we also have a focal point for family nudity that enables the whole family to participate together. We have an outdoor hot tub and a large shower room which is large enough for 6 adults. Our little ones see this as a heated kiddie swimming pool they can use water toys in too. Our huge shower is lots of fun and having showers together leads to many enjoyable moments especially if the guys are helping. We also allow our children - from birth - to see us in ordinary nude situations (e.g.- dressing, bathing or showering, using the toilet) or any activity where nudity is a natural part of the activity. We definitely are teaching them when nudism is acceptable and when it isn't. They know that others don't appreciate being nude like we do. We believe that by being comfortable with our own bodies we will naturally convey the message to our children that nudity really is okay and not something to fear. Very quickly they are so used to it and begin to explore their own feelings about being nude themselves. We do teach then that there are times in life when clothes must be worn for protection, for comfort, and to adhere to what is expected outside of our home. We have been able to show our children that we have to respect other peoples standards. They all know that other people are not accustomed to nudity, and it's kind to respect their wishes. This may mean keeping the curtains drawn, or willingly closing the bathroom door when guests are present, for example -- a practice that encourages courtesy. As the kids grow older they begin to explore their world around them. Their natural curiosity is amazing. With my last pregnancy my son was always asking a lot of questions about what he saw happening. He was very curious about my tummy changes, the changes in my breasts and many other parts of my body. I'd explain to him in simple words what was happening and give him the opportunity to ask more questions or to even hands-on explore what the changes were like from his point of view. Seeing him listen to my tummy for the heartbeat was so endearing. Once he put his ear to my vulva under the impression that he would hear it better because the opening lead directly into the baby. He found it wasn't anywhere near as clear as listening to my tummy. Robbie has more of a sense of human reproduction then other children his age. He is not embarrassed when discussing human anatomy. He'll be very comfortable as he grows to his teen years. I know from how my oldest girl has been that our natural sharing of sexuality will keep the communication lines open during adolescence. Jen was always very open to asking me questions about all topics. Our relationship has grown as a result. Our natural open approach to family life has also provided our children with the opportunity to explore on their own level various degrees of sexuality and sensuality. They know the joy in feeling the sun on their bodies, the touch of a hand as they are massaged, how others react to their touches, the joy of giving pleasure. We believe that as parents we need to be responsible for providing them the opportunities for a healthy enjoyable and safe environment for them to learn with us, their siblings and themselves. I believe that children raised in this environment are more tolerant of different cultures, attitudes, people and beliefs. They will be natural citizens of the world. (,)-(,) >>>>> commentary by Julie on September 23, 2009 Rob is now in Grade 3 and getting into spelling. One of our family learning exercises is to have the kids tell us what the various parts of their bodies are and to point to them. When they get old enough we include the correct spelling of those words. Rob will point to a part, say what it is and is slowly starting to be able to spell the word out for us. I love it when he is pointing out parts of the body such as penis, scrotum, testicles, vulva, clitoris, anus, labia, vagina. Those touches are very special to me. I can see Kathy watching us as he does his spelling lessons and I know she'll be doing that earlier than he has. I think perhaps I have discovered a new way for young children to learn to spell. As an aside, we do talk to our children using the proper terms for the parts of our bodies. I do this so that they can be confident when they talk with the doctor about how they are feeling and show and describe what is hurting them. In time I know they will know the other normally used words such as cock, cunt, pussy etc but for now we are actually quite formal in our discussions. Back to the original blog entry... (,)-(,) Julie (horny mom) www.asstr.org/~julie_love/ dated created 2008/03/14 - last updated 2009/09/23 **** end of text ****