Note: This story was dynamically reformatted for online reading convenience. Why Men Want To Share Their Wife With Other Men It is a historical fact that early Eskimo men regularly shared their wives with visitors who came into their villages. Reportedly, inviting a visiting trapper or hunter to sleep with one's wife was a gesture of good will and hospitality. It is not reported whether or not the wives regarded such arrangements as opportunities to enjoy sexual variety... or simply a wifely duty. Regardless, in that culture, wife-sharing was a common and accepted cultural thing. Setting aside the Eskimo tradition, it is known that throughout history, and across many cultures, wife-sharing has been a common (but often hushed) practice. Why do men share their wives intimately with other men? The following reports (and adjacent files) offer some insight. To Us, Wife-Sharing Is Like An Amusement Park Ride I get very excited when I watch my wife with another man, and when I know she is alone and having sex with another man. I believe this excitement is natural, and comes from a phenomenon I call "Sperm Competition." This is where several males compete for the breeding rights to a female. It is a testosterone-driven desire, and it is far more common then you would think. Men usually have more interest in this when sexually excited, or while having sex. Usually it wanes after sex, when the man's sperm count is lower. It is probably the most common male fantasy, but it seldom materializes in the broader population because of social stigmas. I know my desire for my wife peaks when she is in mid-love-making with another man. She also says that see feels closest to me while another man is inside her, because she knows that I trust her enough to let her enjoy sex with that other man. Often her thoughts are of me as he plays within her. We find that allowing/encouraging my wife to have sex with other men makes the sex we share very intense and extra pleasurable. Basically, when you are sharing your wife with other men, you cannot afford to just "sport fuck" her, because you are competing with other males for the opportunity to give her the highest levels of pleasure. It is very exciting for me to know that other men have been inside of my wife, some without a condom [bare back], giving her lots of pleasure. When they are done it is my job to reclaim her. In fact I think the head of the male penis is designed to break up sperm deposited by other guys, and sort of displacing them from within her. Nature already employs what we see as a fantasy. Mate-sharing is prevalent in many animal species. The Zebra and the Chimpanzee are two of the most active in the multiple-male-on-one-female department. In our society, wife-sharing is outside the normally accepted restrictions placed on husband-wife relationships. Because of that, a couple may think that it is abnormal to have thoughts of the wife being with multiple males. My wife and I don't think it is abnormal at all! It is a matter of fact that throughout history married couples changed partners for the purpose of procreation, when one of them was infertile. For instance, Moses' wife was unable to have children. After many years of trying, she gave up and gave her hand-maiden to him, so she could bear him a son. In poor parts of the world such as India, it is common for several men to marry one woman and share her. That allows the work of several men to support one woman. That arrangement also gives her choices in who she wishes to mate with on a given night. To my wife and me, wife-sharing is like an amusement park ride, where there is the illusion of risk, while producing great thrills. After all, she is my wife... and at the end of the day she is mine, and she will go home with me. Be careful with your partners. They need to know the part they play. If a guy thinks she is "cheating" on her husband, he may think he has a romantic chance with he. If he then finds out she is just having sex with him as something to enhance her sex with her husband, he could be hurt and angry. You don't want him to feel used, or to go public with your antics. If your wife's extra lover is properly prepared, he may enjoy the arrangement, and get off on pleasuring your wife, and also enabling you, her husband, to enjoy "Sloppy Seconds."