Note: This story was dynamically reformatted for online reading convenience. Carol's Husband Gives Some Background On Their Shared Adventures, and His Views Received on August 25, 2006. Additional content added on 3/3/08. Hi Joan, It's a phenomenon that reveals itself to most men early in their marriage. In my case, I realized it while serving in Vietnam, when a close friend wrote me that my first wife was having an affair with her boss at the Ford-Mercury dealership where she worked as a secretary. He had followed them to a motel on more than one occasion, and reported that once they had spent the entire weekend at a resort hotel a few miles from where we lived. What really astonished me was that instead of feeling angry or jealous, I was extremely sexually aroused and excited by my friend's revelation. I remember masturbating while imagining my young and pretty wife lying naked in his arms and spreading her legs for him. I knew the guy slightly, although he was older then me, in his early forties at the time, and I knew he was built like a stud, and probably had a big cock for my wife to enjoy. Much later, when I had returned home and been discharged, I told her all about my feelings, and I urged her to continue seeing him if she wanted to. She had a difficult time accepting this, but eventually she understood I really meant it, and she did begin seeing him again occasionally, which excited me tremendously. I met Carol (my current wife) long after Linda and I were divorced. At the time Carol was in her early thirties and in her first marriage to a much older man, literally forty years her senior. She was still working as a flight attendant for a major airline. Not long after we met and began an affair, she quit her job and filed for divorce, which took about another year to become final. The settlement was generous. She kept the home in Florida where they had lived in the winter months, and where we lived for about three years before moving to our present home near Ocala. Carol and I had a great sexual relationship from the start, but she needed sex so frequently that I began to tire a bit... and when she revealed that she had cheated on her husband a couple of times with an attractive guy, and had enjoyed it... I let her know that it would be a big turn-on for me if she ever felt like doing that again. We began watching amateur porn together during foreplay, and fantasizing about her enjoying sex with some very attractive and well-endowed stud. Our first swinging experience was with another married couple I knew and had been involved with before meeting Carol. The guy was exceptionally physically attractive, and had a big cock. Carol was soon learning what it was like to suck her husband off while another guy with a much bigger cock fucked her from behind and made her cum before ejaculating into her. The problem was that although I was also having sex with the other wife, I wasn't at all passionate about it. I found that I only really enjoyed the vicarious pleasure I got from watching Carol having sex with the other guy. I could sometimes hear her having a loud orgasm with him in the middle of the night in the guest bedroom, and it would cause me to get an instant erection. I would then wake up the guy's wife, and we would listen to her husband and my wife cumming together. Then I'd be so hot that I would enter her from behind, and almost immediately have an ejaculation. It's important to understand that with Carol and me, there's no humiliation or anything like that going on between us. Her relationships with other men are with my full approval, and strictly to provide Carol with great sex for its own sake. There's never any strong emotional attachment between her and the other guy, although the physical attraction can be intense. In fact I love it when she is really attracted to a new guy and wants to do everything she can to please him sexually. She didn't tell you, but she has come to enjoy anal penetration as well as double penetration, and lets Lee enter her anally and DP her while she and I are having intercourse with her on top of me. But more on that later. Her first real sexual adventure with another man occurred shortly after we were married, and were vacationing in Alaska with a group of about twenty other tourists plus four guides. One of the guides was a young grad student at the University of Michigan, named Brad. Brad was an exceptionally big, tall and well-built former college football player. I have to tell you that Carol adores really big muscular types, and will go out of her way to have sex with any guy who is over 6'4" and built like a Mack truck. On our second to last day, we were in Denali National Park, and had walked about a half mile from the parking lot when Carol faked a sprained ankle, and asked Brad to assist her. He wound up carrying her all the way back to where he'd parked one of the vans, which happened to be in a very secluded section. After necking and kissing for a few minutes, Carol proceeded to remove his cock from his pants and give him what she described as "a blow job to completion," culminating with him ejaculating about half in her mouth and half in her face. Carol always carries a packet of Kleenex with her, and on that occasion she put it to good use. Later that evening (our last night of the tour) we were back at the main camp and staying in individual cabins. I let Carol and Brad have our cabin to themselves for a couple of hours so they could finally enjoy fucking their brains out, which they had both been wanting to do all day. And yes, she told him that I knew what had happened back at Denali earlier, and that I wanted him to fuck her. The first time we did a threesome with someone we picked up was on our first vacation in Europe. We had taken a charter flight which was supposed to land in Zurich, but had been diverted to Stuttgart, due to bad weather over the Alps. So we had to take another short flight to Zurich. We were the last ones to board the plane, so seats were at a premium, and we had to sit separately. As luck would have it, my wife sat next to a big blonde German guy who was a salesman, married, and in his thirties, on his way to Zurich on business. In addition to big men (and now black men, I should add), she loves blonde guys, so she was doubly attracted to this guy. When we got off the plane, she introduced me to "Werner," and I knew from the look she gave me that she was going to have to have sex with this guy... and she wanted me to know it. Things worked out very smoothly. The three of us met for dinner that evening, and after the small talk, we steered the conversation around to sex... and eventually let Werner in on the fact we had an "open marriage." We invited him back to our hotel room. He was already kissing Carol on the elevator ride up to our room, and before we had even had the champagne I'd ordered, my wife was down on her knees with Werner's cock in her mouth. Things progressed rapidly... to them both undressing each other... and going 69 on the bed (with him lying under her)... before he finally got her on her knees and entered her from behind. I had been jerking myself off, and I took the opportunity to go stand in front of my wife and get my cock sucked while I watched Werner enjoy fucking Carol hard and deep through her first loud and intense orgasm. He eventually came himself a few seconds later, and blew the contents of his balls deep into her cunt. Werner stayed with us the rest of that night, and fucked Carol several more times before morning. None of us got much sleep. We've managed to stay in contact with him, and he's been to Florida once since then and stayed with us for a week. The most important guy other than her current boy friend (Lee), was another big blonde guy... and like Lee, also a county employee (and in the same department as Lee coincidentally, so they obviously know each other... but don't know they are both fucking Carol, at least we don't think so). "Sean" is single and in his early thirties. He had to visit our property on county business one Saturday morning in late January about four years ago. Sean rang our doorbell, and asked if he could come in and go over some proposed zoning changes for our neighborhood. My wife invited Sean to have a cup of coffee. She was wearing just her bathrobe, and wearing nothing underneath. I noticed that she was letting it hang open, so Sean couldn't help getting a nice view of her bare tits... and occasionally more further down, as they sat across from each other at our kitchen table. Her tits were exposed for only a few seconds, but he couldn't take his eyes off my wife's tits. Carol was pretending not to notice what had happened to her robe, like she didn't know she was exposing herself. After about 15 seconds, which seemed like a lifetime, she pretended to suddenly notice, and immediately covered herself up, closing the robe at the top and blushing with feigned embarrassment. I started to get an erection as I saw the effect this was having on the young guy. When I saw what was going on, I quickly made an excuse to leave her alone with him, and said I had a golf date with my cousin in a nearby community (an hour's drive away), and that I wouldn't be returning for several hours. I left. Our daughter happened to be visiting my wife's sister and husband and their own two kids, who are about the same age as our daughter. That was all my wife needed to seduce Sean into our bedroom (and into our bed) where the big guy fucked her for the first of now literally hundreds of times in the past four years. When I left, Carol told Sean that she needed some help with something in the bedroom. She asked him to follow her. He did, while Carol again allowed her robe to open up at the top. Sean couldn't help getting a clear view of both of her tits fully exposed. It turned out that that first time they were together, Sean fucked my horny wife for over two hours, and had cum in her three times before he left.  Of course I got a full report from her later that afternoon. He had been remarkably easy to seduce, and was everything Carol could have asked for. As soon as I left and she got him into our bedroom, he put his hands on her breasts, and she had melted into his arms while standing by our bed. Then, she reported, he became very aggressive, pulling her robe off of her completely naked body, kissing her, embracing her and forcing her down on our bed. Then she helped him remove his clothes, and sucked his cock until it was fully erect. She said she then spread her legs for him while he forced them back over her head and entered her in the missionary position. She told me later that he had a really big cock, and had stretched her so much she felt like she was completely filled with cock. Until Lee came along later, I had never seen her as attracted to anyone as much as she was to this guy, and she continued seeing him about twice a month, sometimes more, often over the next couple of years. She even had her breasts enhanced for him at a cost of over $7000. However, I never got to watch them together as he wasn't comfortable with my involvement. He knew that I knew about their relationship, and occasionally I would answer the phone when he called her, but that was all. He always met Carol at a motel, usually in the late afternoon when he got off work. He was married, and his wife had just had their first child and wasn't back on the pill yet, so they were practicing birth control by him wearing a rubber. He told Carol how much he loved being able to shoot a load in her without a rubber on. He used to cum liberally inside her, so I got plenty of cream pies to enjoy whenever they were together.           There was one other guy she had an affair with for a while during the same period, another young guy in his thirties who was a local golf pro. She was fucking both him and Sean on different afternoons. She would come home smelling of sex and all aglow from a really good fucking... her pussy filled with fresh loads of cum. She would always let me perform oral sex on her before cleaning herself up. While I'd be tonguing her clit, she would extol her lover's virtues to me, telling me how much she loved their big muscular bodies and their big cocks... and how good it felt to feel them exploding their balls deep inside her when they ejaculated. I slowly brought her to an orgasm with my tongue while simultaneously listening to her and tasting the cum that both these virile men deposited in her cunt.       We were both very happy during this period, but there was something we both wanted very much for Carol to experience that so far hadn't yet happened for her. We both wanted her to enjoy a sexual relationship with a really big, good looking, and well endowed black stud. She admitted It was something she'd often thought about and found to be very erotic and exciting. And there was something about it that only a true cuckold can appreciate. Before she started having sex with Lee, she was meeting Sean at least twice a week in the afternoon at various local motels for "quickies" that would last an hour or so. I never joined them, because Sean was not at all interested in that scene, although he loves to fuck Carol, and she is admittedly extremely physically attracted to him as well. Now we come to Lee, her very first experience with a black guy... something that turns us both on tremendously, and which we both wish we hadn't waited so long to try. It wasn't as if we didn't watch interracial porn together... because we did, and it was always a real turn-on for us. The opportunity just hadn't presented itself to us the way it finally did when Lee and his wife moved into our development a year or so ago. I have to tell you Joan, the very fist time she met the guy, I was watching her talking to him as he stood at the end of our driveway, naked from the waist up, and sweating like a beast. It was August, and already hot and humid at 7:30 in the morning. As I watched, I knew she was going to experience her first black cock, and I enthusiastically told her so when she came back into the kitchen. She called him her "gorgeous black hunk," and spent the better part of two months waiting for an opportunity to seduce him before it finally came in the form of a Florida downpour and subsequent flooding of our development. But she has already written an exciting account culminating with their first time together, so I won't try to embellish upon that. What I'd like everyone to know is how exciting and pleasurable our kind of lifestyle can be for the husband. Having an attractive and slightly oversexed wife can be a real roller coaster ride with unbelievable highs you won't find anywhere else. I truly enjoy watching my wife having sex with this physically attractive and well-endowed black male. I'm an artist at heart, and I love to see his rippling black muscles pressing against my wife's soft white curves while he's fucking her. I love to see her spread her legs for him, inviting him to enter her. I love to see his strong arms pinning her legs way back over her head against the pillow so he can achieve deeper penetration, then slowly entering her with his big, fully-erect cock that seems way too big for her, but she's taking it all like a good 'slut' wife, and enjoying every inch of it. I love to watch her building up to her first orgasm. And even more, I love it when her stud gets really hot and ready to cum himself, and starts really slamming his big black cock into her, stretching her wide before he unloads inside her. But, absolutely nothing compares to watching a big black stud ejaculating 10 inches deep inside your pretty wife's hot wet pussy when he finally cums in her. I will fill you in later about our developing relationship with Lee, and our plans for Carol to experience group sex with three or four well-hung black males on our next wedding anniversary. This is the single most exciting fantasy we haven't yet acted out. Sincerely, Carol's husband, Allen A follow-up note from Allen... Your advice and encouragment to go ahead and act out our all black gang-bang fantasy was very welcome. It led to an interesting weekend meeting with the head of the group we told you about. I will refer to him as Jason, in lieu of his real name. They are a large group of black guys from the Tampa area who throw interracial parties for swingers every month, and arrange gang-bangs for married white women, for whom "one black cock just isn't enough" (their motto). I made arrangements with the head of the group for a preliminary meeting with me and Carol and the other married white couple who will be joining us... so the girls could meet him and some of the guys ahead of time, and so we could share our concerns with them. We're going to be staying in Key West the first week in December to celebrate our 14th wedding anniversary, and the gang-bang will take place in our two-bedroom suite starting on Saturday night, December 9th... and extending into the early morning hours of Sunday the 10th... which is the actual date of our anniversary. We think five guys will be enough to keep both girls well satisfied for the evening, so the group will be limited to five guys, but we've been promised all will be very big, well-built, and well-hung black guys, ranging in age between twenty five and forty five, all younger than Carol. Jason is apparently the oldest member of the group, at forty five. The other couple was supposed to go with us, but at the last minute their plans changed, and they couldn't go, so Carol and I went alone. It also turned out that Jason brought only one other guy with him. Carol brought along several sexy outfits she purchased at Victoria's Secret, and gave the two men a preliminary fashion show in our hotel room, ending with her wearing just a very short, white, transparent, wedding night negligee she plans to wear in Key West. She ended her performance by sitting in Jason's lap, lifting her nightie, and placing both his hands on her bare breasts. She and I had engaged in our usual ritual of abstaining from any sex for a couple of weeks leading up to the meeting, and Lee had only paid us one midnight visit earlier in the week, so Carol was feeling pretty horny. I shaved her pussy the night before. She had painted her toenails bright red, and wore a shade of very sexy platinum lipstick. She looked really sexy, and I was quite proud of her. She started off giving Jason head, and then took turns sucking both guys off while I watched and got a nice hard-on myself. She got Jason off in her mouth while the younger guy mounted her from behind and started fucking her. Then they both took turns fucking her for about two hours before leaving us. The younger guy was a body builder, with a giant-sized cock. He loved fucking Carol doggy style. He stretched her pussy wide, and literally wore her out, fucking her like that, before he finally shot his load into her, leaving a nice cream pie for me to enjoy later. Anyway, she has now fucked four different black guys since she first started fucking Lee a year ago... and it will soon be three more in December. I went to a community meeting last week and I was wondering how many of the innocent-looking women I saw there are getting black cock on the side. I have a feeling it's more than anyone would guess. I will send you an entire compilation of all my thoughts, emotions, and physical responses involved in watching my wife enjoying sex with a young good looking, well-hung black guy, which I am now getting more and more used to as time goes on. It is entirely different than watching her with a white lover for some reason. Although I can't quite fathom the difference intellectually, I will try to express my deepest subliminal feelings while I am watching them enjoying the most intimate physical contact with each other so readers may judge for themselves. What is it about a large, well-built black male enjoying sex with a mature married white female that is so erotic and exciting to watch? Faithfully yours, Allen A related follow-up note from Carol... Allen said he e-mailed you yesterday about our plans for our Key West vacation in December. We're going to spend a week with our best friends, another married white couple we've been swinging with for almost our entire marriage. Beverly is a hottie who adores black guys, so the two of us should have a great time partying with our five Mandingo studs. I will give you a blow-by-blow (LOL) description when we return. About the two Mandingos we met in Clearwater... They were great guys, and assured us that they were all completely disease-free and drug-free, and would be very respectful of our wishes at all times. Our "No" would mean NO... with no exceptions. I put on a little "fashion show" for both men, changing into different sexy outfits I got on sale at Victoria's Secret. Of course I don't have to tell you I wound up having sex with both guys before they left. The younger one (only twenty-five) was extremely well-endowed, and he loved shoving it all the way inside me, and then pounding the hell out of me from the rear. I enjoyed making him happy Joan, but I was sore for a week after that session. Gotta take plenty of KY to Key West