Note: This story was dynamically reformatted for online reading convenience. Ginger Tells How She and Hubby Add Spice To Their Sex Life From Ginger Please, if you do not like sexual subject matter, or find my writing style or content about outside-of-marriage sex to be distasteful, just simply pass me by in search of other more desirable stories.. :) __________________________________________________________________ But if you choose to linger, this is a true story about me, my husband, and the way we add spice to our wonderful sex life. I am an Asian lady, age 36, and my husband is American born, age 38. As you read my story, please don't think we have never had a bad experiences or troubles. All is never rosey all the time. Exploring outside-the-home sexual experiences occasionally have an ingredient or two that are less than wonderful. No one wants to hear too much of that. So in this report I have stayed with what pleased me. __________________________________________________________________ Some quick background: We didn't start our marriage doing what you are about to read. But through role-playing, fantasies, fantasy reading, etc., my husband and I both developed a fascination for other men (even strangers) having sex with me... and then my husband listening to my adventure, and having sex with me too. His most explicit fantasy is for me to dress slutty (heavy on the lipstick) and have sex with a stranger... then come right home for him to get on me and do all the same things before I clean up. My fantasy is to have sex with other men and to broaden my experiences, but it doesn't matter quite as much to me about dressing in an extreme manner. __________________________________________________________________ And so............ as an example of the way we have fantasy-fulfilling sexual fun........ On this particular summer evening in July of last year, my getting-ready started in mu usual way. It was Friday night, which is the best night for dance lounge visits - crowded, standing room only, live music, a dimly-lit dance area where it is easy to share the spotlight with other women and girls who are dressed nicely too. I took a long hot bath. I had earlier discovered that I could increase my internal sexual heat by bringing a few Penthouse magazines to the tub with me. Even just browsing the stories tends to turn me on. It was just that type of reading that my husband (Brett) and I did in the beginning of our marriage, which got our minds drifting off in this erotic direction in the first place. Yes, we also think many of the stories are fiction and male imagination, but some seemed quite real... and the sum total left us with a desire to experiment. If I were to dress as Brett envisioned me to dress, I'd be almost naked in a tight-fitting silk slip & high heels. But that's not realistic outside our own bedroom. That night I wore a very white one-piece minidress, accented with a wide red leather belt, red heels, very red lipstick, nylons, and a few pieces of costume jewelry. Have I worn garters before? Yes, but usually on special occassions, and with dresses that can carry it off well. This night I wore lacy panties. Sometimes Brett convinces me to leave the panties at home. May I say here that my language at home is pretty tame, but in this story I'll describe things the way men are more accustomed to. I mean language different than what I allow myself at home, near family. Brett finds it very hard not to want sex with me during my preparation period. But we both want it delayed. Him... because when I get home, and after an evening of anticipation, the moment will be more intense if he waits. And me... because although Brett wants me as a "used, cum-filled woman," I want to present myself fresh to whomever I meet later in the evening. I left the house around 9 pm. It took me 20 mintues to get to the lounge of my choice. It's one that I'm comfortable with, and one where my husband and I have both been before. It took me another 10 mintues in the car, building up some courage to go in. As usual, I was sexually very stimulated at being able to play with this extra-marital-sex lifestyle with my husband's permission. I love sex, and have grown to really enjoy my fantasy nights out. But I also tend to be on the reserved side (personality wise) and more submissive in nature. So in some ways, dressing slutty in public, and being reserved in private, is like two colliding worlds. I usually don't fully calm down and relax until after about 10 mintues inside the lounge, and it helps to be dancing. As expected, it was crowded inside. The band was playing loudly, and my eyes took a while to adjust to the low lighting. I was immediately approached by a man who bought me a drink. Although I wasn't particularly attracted to him, I took it. We engaged in some mild conversation just so I could keep busy for a bit. We even danced one number. I was feeling more comfortable by that point, and my eyes began to take in a wider perspective of the crowd. Eventually I excused myself and stepped off by myself for a bit. Soon an older gentleman asked me to dance. He was quite handsome and well dressed. I accepted. We went off for three dances, both slow and fast. I found him to be quite nice. I also quickly noticed that he was quite horny... and had had enough to drink that he looked oh so very relaxed. I was getting a little horny too by then, and I allowed him to hold me pretty firmly around the waist as we talked for awhile near the bar stools. It wasn't necessarily my desire to stay until the place closed. I just wanted to have a nice (hopefully exciting) sexual experience, and then go home to my husband to finish up a fulfilling evening. So even though this man had a lot to drink, I was considering him for what he might be capable of giving me in the way of raw sex and quick romance if we were to go off somewhere. But could he drive? I was having some doubts too as to how it would work out with him. Fortunately I hadn't committed myself yet, and could still comfortably dash off to dance with another man from time to time, or make a trip to the restroom without that man getting upset. After one of those quick trips to the restroom, a much younger guy (who I learned was named Rick) approached me and asked me to dance. We did, and ended up dancing all the way until the band took a break. I suspected Rick was married, but he wasn't particularly revealing of his personal life as we talked. At least not the domestic part of his life. I admitted to him that I was married though, and he was only interested in whether my husband was also at the club that night. Once hearing that he wasn't, Rick continuede his flirtatious interest. He looked 7 or 8 years my junior. I didn't ask, and he didn't inquire much on this subject either. He had to know our obvious age difference though. The band began another set, and we went back onto the dance floor. It was so crowded that couples were constantly brushing against each other, lightly bumping. I had a strong attraction to Rick, so it was an exciting feeling for him to draw me in close, with his arm around my waist. Mine were around his neck. As he let his hands roam down the sides of my dress, and softly around my bottom, I was feeling relaxed and increasingly hot. I just let my body follow his as we moved slowly around the dance floor. Eventually I could feel his erection pushing firmly against my abdomen from inside his pants. I felt sure I had a good prospect for what I wanted. He was commenting on my perfume and the softness of my body and the silkyness of my dress. His hands were starting to find a home on my rear end. He used his hands to pull me closer to him... closer against his erection. I found myself helping him a little... though subtly. I was even having heated fantasies of the power of Rick's penis. It is a recurring fantasy of mine... about the impregating potential of a man's cock. I imagined Rick's penis trying hard to work its way into my reproductive canal... to impregnate me with very potent sperm... to mate with me, and to leave me laying open-legged on the floor somewhere. It's just one of my fantasies. When the dance ended, I excused myself for a moment to go to the restroom. I walked through the crowd, down the hall. Before getting to the bathroom, I found that the had-too-much-to-drink man had followed me. He was still very nice, still very horny. He looked even older under the brighter lights, but that didn't make a difference. There was still something attractive and adventurous about him. He put his hands around me and pulled me toward him. He wanted to dance some more, even though he knew I was with another man right then. He wasn't troublesome. Maybe that's why I felt comfortable with him. I was nice to him and permitted his hands to explore my body through my dress and to take a quick liberty with my breast, before I leaned forward and gave him a nice kiss and told him it would be great to talk with him again on another evening, but that I had to leave for the moment. He was very cooperative. More so than some would have been. Nice person, but I wondered if he'd get home OK. In the restroom, I put on some more lipstick, and in the stall I inserted my only birth control, an IUD. I never insist my outside-of-home partners use a condom, because Brett's desire is to feel another man's cum inside of me when he pushes his own penis in to fuck his "used wife." From the payphone I made a quick call home, and pretended I was talking to a babysitter, just in case Rick would walk up to me. It was just a pre-arranged way of telling my husband that I had met someone, and that I was confident sex was in the cards. It gave him a confirmed sense of anticipation... that his reward would indeed be coming... later. Back on the dance floor, Rick's hands returned to roaming my body, and the renewed sexual tension between us seemed to quickly reactivate the rock-hardness of his cock. I gave him a light kiss on the lips to make sure it didn't go away, and to let him know I shared his interest in sex. Moments later he took me by the hand and led me outside to his car. It was right out front. We drove to another parking spot in a more darkened area, but still among the hordes of other parked cars. In the privacy, Rick kissed me. Our tongues were rapidly probing each other's mouths. What a wonderful make-out he was. My husband has a fetish for me in lipstick, but he often wipes it off his mouth after the first kiss. Rick didn't stop. He was consuming me, and I liked it. He pulled down the elastic top of my dress. I helped him unsnap my bra. The warmth and softness of his hands on my breasts as he cupped them, squeezed them and pooched out the nipples so his mouth could softly clamp around them... was exciting. There is just something extra stimulating about feeling the touch of a strange man's hands playing with my breasts. I love it. I didn't hesitate in making my sensual desires known to Rick. I encouraged him to cup his entire mouth over my tit... and to suck as much in as he could... then to move back and forth in a milking motion, stretching it out as far as he could, and then back in. That kind of sex play is highly exciting to me. It drives me to new ecstasies as sexual foreplay goes on. I grappled with his pants. Rick undid his belt, his zipper, and tried to slip off his pants. Finally he had to step outside the car to get them off. Then he through them in the back seat. The man was wonderfully naked from the waist down in front of me... and his hard cock went right into my mouth as I bent over to welcome him back inside the car. Rick's hands went back to my breasts. His caresses felt so good. As I continued to suck on him, I could feel Rick pulling my dress up over my ass, and trying to push down my nylons. We were both a little out of breath, and I told him I may not have enough room in there to slide them off easily... but that I wanted to get them off. He wanted me to get out of the car and come over to his side, the darker side where the distant parking lot light wasn't reaching us so brightly. We both stood outside of the car, and I leaned my back against it. Rick stood before me. As I held the hem of my dress up to my waist, Rick gently pulled my nylons down and off. He then slid my lace panties down. Before he rose back to his feet, his face went between my legs, and he started kissing my pubic mound. I savored the wonderful sensations my new friend was giving me. I was leaning against the car. I actually had my left leg lifted up slightly, and definitely out, as Rick's tongue entered me and explored as far in as it could. My hand was at the back of his head, pulling him into me. Finally I asked him to come up to me. Rick stood up and embraced me. His penis was sticking between my legs, looking for the right place. When it found my pussy, Rick plunged in so fast and hard, that I winced a little. Then I felt the car against my shoulders. I guess I was leaning far back, in compliance with Rick's penetrating thrusts. I was feeling very much like a bitch in heat. Rick was verbal and descriptive... but also respectful. Secretly I was fantasizing about him not being so respectful as he had sex with me. In my own dream world, I was conguring up his aggressive voice calling me his bitch, and telling me that I was the whore he had been looking for. After several minutes of great fucking, Rick turned me around. He wanted to fuck me from behind too, and I gave in to his desire. I could feel him position his penis up against my anal hole, but I quickly readjusted him to my vagina, and leaned out further for him. Rick didn't object or try again. He entered my vagina from behind, and I was the first to climax. Believe me... it was a memorable climax... a climax that left my head spinning for a bit. My hands were sprawled across the trunk of his car, and Rick's hands went from holding onto my tits, to holding onto my hips, as he humped back and forth against me. I enjoyed every thrust! Rick was also quick to come. I could sense when he was reaching his climax. Quickly he ejaculated his cum inside of me. I knew he had finished... but to my surprise he didn't stop. He kept humping as long as he could keep it up... and I let him. I was probably feeling more pleasure than he was at that point. I thought it an enjoyable new experience that a man would not stop suddenly after climaxing and emptying himself of cum. I liked the feel of his warm, slick post-ejaculation thrusts. For awhile we could hardly move. I turned around and we embraced and held each other. Rick really wanted to sit down, so we got back into his car, but not before throwing some clothes on first. Inside we reclined the seats and talked for awhile, recuperating. I put on some lipstick, and a little perfume. We touched some more, and did some light petting. I felt his cock. It was soft, but I enjoyed looking at it and feeling it. He kissed me and caressed my breasts for a while. He told me he would be watching for me on future visits to the dance lounge. I told him I would welcome that, but I never gave him my phone number. To Brett and I, that is a no-no. And, of course I did not ask for a way to contact him. It was after 2 am when I arrived back home. As is customary, my husband was in bed, wide awake, waiting for me to come to him. I always freshen my make-up before going into the house, and then I sit next to him on the edge of the bed. He asked if I "did it." Of course I said "yes... it happened." He also always wants to know if it was a good experience (in other words, he wants to know if am I in a good mood), or did something negative happen. "No, it was nice. I had a great time. I liked it," I told him. Then... as I always do... I started to tell him about the evening. His hand went to my thigh... soon moving up to my pussy hole. I knew he could feel the slipperiness of the cum that was still sticking to the sides of my vagina. As is often the case, I didn't get far into my story before he got on top of me to penetrate "my indecent receptacle of another man's cum." Those are Brett's special moments... his fantasy come true... the time when his hard penis is surrounded by the slippery warmth of a stranger's cum... in bed with his "unfaithful" wife, still unwashed, still smelling the same as I had an hour ealier in the parking lot... still faithful to our marriage, still adventurous. I guess most women could not do what I do... and I think most men could not handle having their wife do what I do. But Brett and I find that my periodic adventures add a great deal of spice to our shared sex life. And... to be honest... I am glad my Brett allows (encourages) me to have these little adventures. They give me a chance to experience a variety of guys, and a variety of styles of sex play. It is fun to experience different sizes and shapes of penises too. All in all, I am glad we opened ourselves to this special kind of sex play. Brett never exhibits any jealousy, and I always come home to be sure he gets his "special moments" to play in my cum-filled pussy when my night of sexual adventure is over. We always seem to talk about those sessions for days afterward, and they stimulate some really great sex between us.