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 One Man's Philosophy on Sharing His Girl with Other Guys

   I was chatting to someone recently who was asking me for advice on how
to get his girlfriend to start fucking other guys.  Based on my years of
experience, there is never a simple answer to this.

   But something else came of the conversation that really made me think
that everyone in this lifestyle plays the game, and thinks a little
differently.  I'm always asking myself why we are wired in a certain way...
why does this do it for us, but not that?

   The guy told me he'd discussed the idea with his girlfriend, but hadn't
brought it up with his friends as yet.  Then I thought about my own
feelings about other people knowing about my fantasies.  I've always
thought I have a "hard ass, don't give a crap" attitude when it comes to
what people say or think about me.  But then I thought that's not strictly
true.

   I don't really tell my friends about my desires to see Gloria with other
guys.  In fact I prefer we play with strangers when we do play, and even
then I prefer them not to know she's my girl.

   I either tell guys she and I are friends, roommate's, or just "not
involved." And we have had such great fun playing it that way.  It is
really great watching Gloria from afar in a club as she chats up guys.  And
then the excitement builds as she invites some guy back to our table. 
She'll introduce me as her friend or roommate, and when we get back I
eventually make my excuses and head to bed in our guest room.

   This usually leads to the other guy feeling more comfortable...  if he
thinks I'm not Gloria's partner, and Gloria ends up having some great sex.
I love listening to her being fucked from another room, having the glorious
knowledge that I will be having her used body at some point later in the
evening.

   The same is true when she goes out on a date on her own.  I love the
feeling of sexual tension as I wait at home.  The other guy doesn't even
know I exist.  It's my game with Gloria, and I don't want them to play our
game.  So I'm thinking there must be a part of me that's somehow
embarrassed or self-conscious...  that I don't want the other guy to know
what turns me on sexually.

   I don't know what it is, but I really don't like other guys knowing how
I really feel about my Gloria fucking other guys.  Gloria knows never to
say to another guy, "He likes me fucking other guys." She knows it makes me
feel uncomfortable.

   Maybe one reason is that I want the guy to feel comfortable, and not
intimidated by knowing he has Gloria's partner watching his every move.  I
guess the other reason has to be my own embarrassment for having this kink.


   So the few times I have been asked, "How can you let your women fuck
other guys?"...  I generally reply in a manly voice, "Because I get to fuck
lots of gorgeous girls in return!" The truth is, I do!

   I grew up as a shy boy, not on the outside of social circles, but just
tucked in the doorway I'd say.  I was never very popular with girls until I
reached my late teens.  I had a conventional relationship for many years,
but have always been fascinated with sex, and frustrated at missing out on
a lot of things I would have loved to have done.

   It's only the last few years with Gloria that I really have had the
chance to experiment on a grand scale, check some boxes off, and work out
what I do want as a man...  sexually.  I think I have found the perfect
partner for my lifestyle.

   I love knowing that Gloria is getting lots of sex, with a variety of
guys.  And, I love hearing from the other room, or hearing her report
later. Then the two of us fuck like rabbits!
   Name Withheld