Note: This story was dynamically reformatted for online reading convenience. How to Introduce Your Wife to New Pleasures There are risks in everything, including the addition of new playmates into the marital bed. And yes it is true that sometimes fantasies do not match up to reality. This is especially true if you only give that fantasy one shot at reality. Of course none of us as babies got up and walked around perfectly the first time. We stood up and fell many times before we could walk with wobbling steps. I have helped at least 100 couples work out having multiple men (and an occasional woman) in their beds. I've probably helped another 800 or more women experience being double and/or triple penetrated. This is not something that is done quickly or easily, nor should it be rushed into. And like that baby above, or anybody who's ever studied music or learned to read and write, there is a learning curve. For the husband who is uncertain about introducing the idea of sharing his wife, I recommend you shift from the word "sharing" to the word "gift". When I first started encouraging my early girlfriends to have sex with my friends (when I was still a teenager), I thought I was a big bad dominator. I thought I was forcing/making her have sex with them. Some weeks into the process it became very clear that my girlfriend was an active and eager participant, and she was having far more orgasms than all of the guys combined. I became a bit more covert. The men I invited to have sex with my girlfriends (and later my wife) thought I was giving my submissive girlfriend/wife to them. But the fact is, in each case my relationship was/is with her. My love is directed to her, and they are simply my gift to her. I have only one cock, but through this process I have the ability to have many cocks with which to pleasure her. By the way, since many women relate satisfying sex to love, inviting just one man to have sex with your woman can be dangerous and threatening. I have found from experience that when you bring 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 men into the sex life you share with her (either all together or over multiple times), she is far more likely to just enjoy the sex, without sliding intro romantic feelings. Husbands who may be nervous about losing their wife, but follow this principle, will discover that they have made her love them even more because of the gift(s) they have given her. And there's one final thing. I find it is far better if the husband approaches the men and brings them into the wife/girlfriend. She can certainly show her preferences, but it is usually best if the husband/boyfriend sets things up. Once I gave my wife 8 men in Japan while we temporarily lived there. It took a number of months to set it up. In response to my ads, the men wrote and sent pictures, and then send more pictures and more pictures, and wrote more. That gave my wife a chance to get to know what kind of men they were. We talked on the phone to the ones we felt were the best choices. And then we trimmed down. Finally all 8 of those men met with me. We had drinks and dinner a few times, so that we were all used to one another. We were all comfortable with one another. Please understand this was for my wife, the one I love and adore beyond belief.... someone who bore children with me... the one who had lovingly arranged my first mistress, her best friend, while she was pregnant with our first child, and was sick 24/7. Finally, I met with the chosen Japanese men for one last evening of drinks, and a fantastic dinner at a very upscale restaurant that two of the men had recommended. Then we retired to a suite of rooms that the men had arranged. My wife was already there. They bathed her in a huge sunken Japanese-styled bathtub, with rose petals and rose oil in the water, while she was fed strawberries and champagne. During that time I never undressed. The night was a gift to my wife. And, to this day, more than 15 years after it happened, I remember the look on her face as two men were inside her and she was preparing to take a third into her mouth. She gave me a look of love that I will never forget. Much later that night as she fell asleep in my arms, she was softly crying, telling me how happy and fulfilled she was, and how loved she felt. Each of us is different, so what I say is definitely not one-size-fits-all. There are women who love being called "a slut". However, in my experience, there are a great many women who are repelled by that image, and will resist their husband's requests to have sex with multiple men just because they hear men using the word slut. I recommend that you get to know your wife well. Know your lover well, and know how she likes to talk and be talked to... and use appropriate words. The vast majority of women who have taken multiple men multiple times respond powerfully to being treated like a love goddess, a healing-the-earth-woman, a Florence Nightingale nurse extraordinaire, who is helping men with their aching cock needs, as they are deeply satisfied in the process. This minor difference, if one can call that minor, makes something which has appeared impossible for years become real in a matter of weeks. Think carefully of what I have suggested, and you (and she) will greatly enjoy this special variation in your shared sex life. I wish all of you who seek this pleasure the best of luck.