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 The True Story of a Couple Who Enjoys `Naughty Activities'

   Originally from India, this couple now lives in the Middle East, but do
their playing mainly while on vacations in Europe.  This is basically a
diary of how this one couple progressed into enjoying extra sex partners
(mainly for her)...  from their first experience through her 36th such
extra partner.

   The "Joan" mentioned throughout the article is the woman who is also
known on the Internet as "The Dear Abby of Threesome Fun".  More details
about Joan are in this site's "!Introduction" and story file "L-104".

   The entire story is 112 pages long, presented in eight (8) parts.

   Part A - 10 Pages.  Three letters from her and one from him, giving
their background as they entered their new "lifestyle." Part B - 13 Pages.
She tells about their first time having experiences with other guys in
their shared sex life...  all non-penetrative experiences.  Part C - 11
Pages.  One letter each from him and her, telling more details about their
experiences in Amsterdam, with single guys, and then with a couple.  Part D
- 8 Pages.  He tells their reactions to their first two experiences, and
details their third experience.  Part E - 26 Pages.  He tells about their
vacation in Phuket, a 45 minute air trip south of Bankok, Thailand.  Here
they met Martin, with whom India shared her first full-penetration threeway
sex...  all weekend long.  Part F - 20 Pages.  He tells about his fantasies
of having sex with his wife's sister, and eventually it happens.  And, her
reactions to learning about Raj and her sister.  Part G - 14 Pages.  Their
first FMF threesome - with her sister.  Part H - 10 Pages.  A Summary of
the Special Sexual Adventures of India and Raj, and their thoughts on
various aspects of "extra guy" adventures.



   Part A - India's First Letter to Joan Early May, 2000

   Dear Joan,

   My husband and I accidentally stumbled onto a site which had some of
your stories, while web-surfing.  My husband and I also read your advice to
wives on how to go about taking on an extra sex partner.

   We are very interested in getting all accounts of the "true" adventures
of other couples in having MFM threesomes.  What also interests us is the
manner in which all couples (especially the wives) took that "first step".

   We are a couple in our early/mid 40's.  We are of Indian origin, now
settled in Abu Dhabi (United Arab Emirates), in the Middle East.  My
friends call me India, in honor of the country in which I was born.  I am
considered attractive and good looking (5'5", 36-28-35, 55kgs).  My husband
is Raj, also good looking and trim, and averagely hung at 6 1/2".

   We have now been married for about 20 years, and ventured into extra
partner sex about 3 years ago.  We started doing this at my husband's
suggestion.  We started with a "soft" swap with a couple, and then went on
to a "soft" threesome with another man.

   I had requested that we have non-penetrative fun, until I was ready to
go all the way.  It was in fact our 4th sexual adventure before I went all
the way, in a threesome with another man.  In fact, except the first time,
which was with a couple, the other three were all MFM threesomes.

   This was for two reasons.  Firstly, Raj likes to watch me with another
man.  Secondly, I have realized that I too enjoyed being with another man
-- double pleasure etc -- and I get a thrill out of doing it while my
husband is watching me, while participating.  Both of us are "open minded,"
and are mildly BI.

   Raj does not have any qualms about touching or sucking the cocks of guys
who join us.  I guess we have been lucky that all our male partners (so
far) have been game to do it, and to reciprocate.  I like this as it makes
for a "no hang-ups" sort of a session.

   We restrict our "naughty activities" to our vacations in Europe, as we
feel comfortable with the anonymity and confidentiality of having sex with
either strangers or new friends there.  In fact some of the people with
whom we had sex (men as well as a couple now) have become friends after we
first had sex with them as strangers.  As readers might guess, we dare not
be "naughty" here in our home community.

   Some of the following stories of our adventures are written by my
husband, and some by me.

   Let me tell you, that as we are both considered to be very attractive,
we like to meet attractive people.  We can afford to be selective.  My
reasoning is that if I am going to have sex with another man (even if we
swap with a couple), I'd like him to be slim and athletic...  and where
ever possible, I'd like the man to be well hung.

   Yes, I am cock-oriented...  and I like large ones.  I reason that if we
are doing this for variety and kicks, I might as well get guys who are
better hung than Raj (shades of "why not experience what I cannot get at
home").  We believe in the "sharing" aspect, and we love each other very
much.  In fact after we started our more open lifestyle, our marital sex
life became much better, and this has spread to all other areas of our
marriage.

   Take care.  Love, India (and Raj)

   India's Second Letter Her and Raj's Misc.  Thoughts on `Extra Lover' Sex
5/6/00

   Dear Joan,

   Hi this is India.  Thanks for your note.

   I think that it is impossible to get bored with cocks, considering that
they come in such an infinite variety of shapes, sizes and colours.  You
think that you prefer an 8" or 9" cock, and then you come across one that
may be just 7" but may be very thick or may have heavy veins on it, and may
be an upturned one.  I must admit I like upturned ones, and thick ones. 
If, it is proportionately long, so much the better.

   General Thoughts from India, Before We Start Our Story...  Joan, there
is no substitute for a naked cock.  Raj and I have never used a condom
during sex between us.  I have used a condom with other men for reasons of
STD/AIDS, not conception.  After our only child, I had a problem, and could
not have another.  So, fear of pregnancy was never there.

   A naked cock feels so hot and real inside me.  Condoms seem to
stifle/muffle the throbbing of a cock.  I love to feel a man ejaculate
inside me.  Raj has a great time fucking me after my cunt has been filled
with another man's cum.  When that happens, he is so mentally charged, that
he then ejaculates very quickly.  Yes, he has eaten my cunt when it is
filled with cum deposited by other guys.

   To date, I have fucked four men without condoms.  The first person to
fuck me without a condom was Martin (see my first penetrative adventure
below), when he visited us in our hometown.  Then when we went to Amsterdam
for our third vacation, I fucked Calvin (of Calvin and Susan) and their
friend Jerry without condoms.  By then we knew Calvin and Susan well, as we
had swapped with them on our second vacation.  They are a careful and
responsible couple.

   I was a bit leery of Jerry, but they assured me that he was 'safe' as he
was a married man and had outside sex only with them.  In fact, Jerry
showed us his recent test, so I was satisfied.  The other person, who I
fuck regularly without a condom is Trent (details later in this story).  As
he is a 'resident' visa holder here, he is checked before his visa is
granted.

   When another man is fucking me, I particularly enjoy having Raj hold me
in his arms as my lover thrusts into me.  I also enjoy Raj's "loving"
caresses on my breasts, and the small kisses that Raj showers on my face as
I'm being fucked missionary style.

   Besides these reasons, Raj is attentive to my physical needs, as he
knows my body well.  He is able to read my responses, and will either touch
me at the right places at the right time, or make a suggestion to my lover
to either 'fuck hard' or lick hard, when I am about to cum.

   If it is after I have cum, he may take over and suck my cunt, if he
realizes that my lover is being too hard on my sensitive clit.  This
combination gives me TOTAL SATISFACTION OF COMBINING RAW SEX AND
LOVEMAKING.

   On my part, I like to stroke my husband's cock with one hand while being
fucked by another man.  I have to be careful to limit this to very light
squeezing/stroking, as a couple of times Raj has cum in my hand.  What Raj
and I both enjoy most, is Raj guiding the other man's cock into my cunt. 
It gives us both so much mental pleasure.

   Joan, opening our bed to 'other men' has rejuvenated our sex life.  It
has also made us come closer to each other.  We are now more 'in love' with
each other...  like we were when we were newlyweds.  This tenderness and
show of affection has spread to all aspects of our married life.

   There has been another gain...  my communicative skills have improved. I
am no longer shy about sharing my thoughts or secrets with my husband.  I
feel that I can tell Raj all of my thoughts, my wishes, what really turns
me on.

   At first I was scared that when we fought, he would fling my enthusiasm
for sucking/fucking another cock at me.  But this is something we never
bring up when we have a fight.

   For my part, I enjoy seeing Raj fuck another woman.  When we were with
Don and Martina (details later in our story), I kept peeking at what Raj
and Martina were doing, in spite of the fact that Don was the first man
(other than Raj) I'd ever had sex with, and I was super aroused.  Then for
a while, we concentrated solely on MFM threesomes, as Raj wanted to see me
being fucked, and did not want to be distracted by his partner.

   When we met Calvin and Susan we had a foursome with them, as Raj really
liked Susan.  Raj talked to Susan about this aspect, and she suggested that
we could solve the problem.  She suggested that while Calvin and I fucked,
she and Raj would just cuddle and lend us a helping hand, and vice versa.
This worked well.  In fact, later on I even held Raj's cock and guided it
into Susan's cunt.

   Raj's Pre-Story Reflections on Their New Lifestyle...  There is no sight
more sex-charged than seeing my wife's sexy naked body being fucked by a
well-endowed man.  When another man fucks her, I love the slippery feeling
inside my wife's cunt when he has screwed her without a condom, and cums
inside her

   I wish India had agreed to (opening our sex life) earlier, and not
wasted precious years.  I get turned-on when another man kisses India on
her lips.  I feel it is a compliment to me, that other men find my wife so
sexy that to want to fuck her.

   I feel there have been hidden benefits to my wife taking extra men as
lovers.  She is in better physical shape today than she ever was, as she
takes extra care of her body.  India notes, "As other men will be seeing me
naked, I am in a constant state of `preparedness.' Joan, I now swim and do
aerobics three or four times a week, and feel that my body is now more
compact and tighter than it ever was."

   When I write about Vacation 2 (when I screwed Vance), I will also write
in short about Calvin and Susan and Jerry.  Then I will write about
(Vacation 3 - Part II) when I seduced Wayne.  And then about my times with
our regular lover Trent.

   Love, India (and Raj).

   India's Third Letter 5/17/00

   Dear Joan, Thanks for your e-mail.  The possibility of sharing our
experiences with other couples excites us.  In fact we will welcome couples
comments too.  Abu Dhabi (our home) is in the Middle East.  We are Indians,
and we came here to better our prospects.

   We read your suggestions on "how to go about finding a third partner,"
but we had already "been naughty" before we read your advice.  We did not
want to do it with any existing friends or acquaintances, so we chose to do
it with strangers, on a vacation.  It has turned out quite well.

   It was easier to have sex first, and then become friends rather than
vice versa.  When we have shared such intimate moments, we had already
crossed the threshold most friendships can never dream of crossing.  Maybe
our closest friends do what we do too, but we don't know about it...  and
we cannot take a chance to ask them or show our hand.  For that reason, we
will never do it with people where we have any chances of being discovered.
Things are not so open here as in Europe.

   For this reason, we like swing clubs in Europe.  When we go to Europe,
we meet our existing recreational sex friends of previous years too, but
the "unexpectedness" of encounters at clubs is very exciting.

   Besides, at the clubs we get to meet "new" men.  Raj generally does not
care for couple swaps as he says that I am his partner, even when we have
an MFM threesome.  I agree, as I have found that a couple of times a "swap"
has turned out to be a less enjoyable "one-on-one" sex experience.  So we
have limited swaps and had more MFM threesomes.

   As we don't do any "naughty stuff" at home (for security reasons), we
always reserve about 10 days of our annual holiday for enjoying our new
recreational sex lifestyle.  During that time, we go wild and make up for
what we miss the whole year.

   The general pattern is that we meet existing men and couple-friends for
daytime lunch screwing, or on days when the clubs are closed.  In the
evenings we go to clubs.  Most evenings we have two encounters at the club
we visit.

   Maybe one out of every four encounters is a swap with a couple.  But we
make sure it is a same bed swap.  So...  two "new" men every day for 10
days is a lot of screwing.  This is in addition to a lunch time screw with
a previously met man or couple-friends.  You can imagine that I really need
a "normal vacation" after that, and those memories keep us "hot" all year,
until the next vacation.

   Bye, India (and Raj)



   India and Raj's Personal Story 5/26/2000

   Dear Joan,

   I am starting at the very beginning, and will tell you all, until my
first new partner "Fuck." There is a difference, as my first sex with
another man was not a fuck.  In fact, as I have told you earlier, in our
case I actually first fucked another man, on our 4th encounter.  You will
realize from reading about our background, even the non-penetrative
encounters that I had, were a very bold step for me.

   We would love to hear comments from other readers.  As for us both,
psychological factors and the mental progression has been very important.
We are always interested in knowing how other couples progressed, and who
suggested it, who initiated the action, how the couple went about finding
the right partner, etc.

   Love India

   MY BACKGROUND - by India

   I was a product of typically conservative Indian moral values and
Catholic schooling.  I was not only sexually conservative, I was a
downright PRUDE.  Before I married, I had no sexual experience with any man
except my husband, Raj.

   I had just dated one guy 3-4 times, and our "playing" was limited to
dancing close at a couple of parties, and then necking in parked cars. 
There was no nudity or sex beyond that.  Then I met Raj.  We fell in love
with each other, and I started to date him, until we got married.

   I was conditioned to believe the following moral values: That sex was
for reproduction only...  That a lady should not enjoy sex...  That, even
if she is enjoying it, a lady should never let her partner know it, and...
That sex and love is one and the same thing.

   This conservative attitude of mine was all the more surprising, when you
understand that I was in a "glamorous" profession.  I was a much
sought-after model...  and I flew for an airline, traveling alone all over
the world.

   So I was not only a virgin when I met Raj (though he was not), I was
totally inexperienced.  He had fucked around a lot (girls/women, some
married among them).  It was love at first sight for both of us.  We
started to smooch and neck in parked cars.  I was a very conservative woman
and I did not let him screw me, though he wanted to.

   Occasionally he was able to unbutton my blouse (in a car) and
feel/fondle my naked breasts.  I liked it.  I noticed that even during
those days, I was very cock-oriented.  When we petted in parked cars, I
used to hold Raj's cock, like it was a new toy for me.  A few times I
stroked him (he showed me how) until he ejaculated in my hands.  I agreed
to let him fuck me ONLY AFTER WE HAD FINALIZED OUR WEDDING DATE.

   I knew about "erections," but I thought that men were "perpetually
erect." I got a surprise when I first saw Raj's cock soft.  This was when
we showered together after our first fuck.  Before that, whenever we necked
and petted, it was always in a dark car and while necking.  Whenever I had
touched his cock, it was erect.  Yes, he had ejaculated in my hands a few
times, but we used to immediately reach for tissues to clean up, and were
so busy zipping up and buttoning up, that I never noticed him going soft.

   When I saw his soft cock in the shower, I pointed out to it saying,
"what happened?  It was so big." I wondered how it had gone soft!!!  He had
to explain to me that "It" always went down after a man ejaculated.  I
mention this to show readers how naïve I was.  It is a different matter
that as we soaped each other, Raj became hard again and we fucked a second
time.

   After that, I gradually started to enjoy sex.  On our honeymoon we
fucked all the time, I just could not get enough of it.  Raj was always
"up" to it and I was a surprisingly willing partner, considering that I had
been such a prude.  It was a time for learning for me, as I had no previous
experience.  I enjoyed Raj going down on me, and I also enjoyed sucking his
cock.  He said that I was a fast learner and that I gave great blowjobs.  I
guess that was because I really love a cock.

   Of course I enjoyed the feeling of a cock sliding in and out of my cunt.
I initially thought oral sex was "dirty," and was very reluctant to let Raj
go down on me.  But once he licked my cunt and I had a series of great
orgasms, I was hooked on it.  I really enjoyed it, and have always loved it
since.  Even today, our sex sessions consist of me sucking Raj, and him
going down on me, before we fuck.

   In our experiments we did try to have anal intercourse.  The very "first
inch" pained me, so my husband did not persist, and we tried it again
(unsuccessfully) a few years later, and gave up the idea, as it was so
painful for me.  So I am still a virgin there and will remain so, as
neither of us fancies anal sex.

   Raj enjoyed looking at my naked body.  He said that I had a `compact and
tight body, and great legs.' I realized that being nude for him turned me
on.  On our honeymoon, we were always naked when in our hotel room.  Raj
had his Polaroid camera and he took lots of pictures of me nude.  I was shy
at first, but I am a vain person, and had an exhibitionistic streak in me.
I got into the groove of being photographed.

   He also took pictures of me nude on the beach.  It was not a nude beach,
and whenever we found no people in sight, my husband would suggest we take
our costumes off and frolic or sunbathe nude.  I realized that I was an
exhibitionist, as I secretly hoped that some people would see me naked.

   Even when people stared at me, when I was wearing my bikini or one-piece
suit, I got excited.  We also fucked on the beach, whenever we found the
beach "deserted," and sometimes we went to the beach after sunset, purely
to enjoy wading nude in the sea and to have the experience of fucking
outdoors.  This used to give me a "kick" and got me hot.

   After our honeymoon we settled into a normal life, though we used to
have sex every day (two or three times on weekends).  But in due course of
time, the frequency dropped.  Our sex became mechanical.  About 7 or 8
years after our marriage, Raj started to fantasize about swinging and group
sex.  He used to read Penthouse, Forum and other magazines, and he used to
show me the letters that excited him.

   He used to get very turned-on by letters that dealt with couples
swapping, or inviting another man to have a threesome, or by a married
woman fucking another guy.  When he shared his fantasies with me, it used
to turn me on, and we would have a hot fuck.  But I seldom had many
fantasies of my own (to be honest, I was scared of sharing what fantasies I
had with Raj).  Raj had a jealous streak, and I was scared that sharing my
erotic thoughts with him might create problems if I was `totally honest'
with him.

   About that time, one day at a party we again met a guy who I had dated a
few times, before I met Raj.  I will call him Bert.  He had also gotten
married, and his wife was with him.  It was a nice pleasant evening with
the four of us spending quite a bit of time together.  Sometime during that
evening Bert asked me to dance.  We danced a couple of fast ones and a
couple of slow ones.  I really love dancing (even today).  Raj has never
into dancing.

   That night when we got home, Raj and I made love-- and Raj was like a
wild man.  He fucked like he was in a frenzy, and his fucking was very
"rough" Afterward as we lay in each other's arms, I asked him what had got
him so "hot." He admitted that he had gotten turned-on seeing me dance with
Bert.  He said that his mind had done a "flashback," and he imagined how
Bert must have kissed and embraced me when I was dating him.

   Raj said, that he had imagined me naked with Bert, and that Bert was
fucking me.  I reminded him that I had only kissed and cuddled with Bert,
and that we had never gone beyond that.  He then asked me if I would enjoy
fucking Bert or another man.  I told him that fucking Bert was out of the
question, as Bert was married and too close to our common friends, and it
may create complications.  When he asked, "how about any other man?" I
admitted, that I was only human-- and I guessed that I would enjoy it. 
This talk got us both aroused and we fucked again.

   From then onward, Raj started to tell me his fantasies when we were in
bed.  He used to tell me that he was imagining we were together in bed with
another couple.  I used to get excited when he told me what he was
imagining, during our lovemaking.  During those times I used to get wetter
than usual, and I reached orgasms very quickly, and my orgasms were quite
intense.

   Then one day, he proposed that we find a couple to swap with, to live
out our fantasies.  I was aghast!  Actually, after we had our first "MFM
threesome" Raj confessed to me that he had always wanted to see me with
another man, but he had tried to "soften" the impact by suggesting a swap
with another couple.

   I asked him, "You mean you actually want me to go to bed with another
man?" He said, "Yes." I thought he had gone mad.  I was totally against it,
and we had a few fights over it.  But he kept on suggesting, and years
later I finally agreed to "try it for his sake."

   It seemed OK as a fantasy, to turn us on, but now I was getting cold
feet when he started to bring home "Swingers" contact magazines, to search
for suitable people.  I then suggested to him that I was very scared of
"being found out," if things should leak out.  I suggested we wait, and
"try it" on a vacation in Europe where we would have absolute
confidentiality.

   I did not want to risk our friends and acquaintances "finding out" about
us if someone "talked." He too thought that it was best to do it on
vacations, with strangers, people we may never meet again and people who
would not know our friends.  We could, amongst them, try to find a couple
with whom we could become long-term friends and lovers.

   So this was the background before we went on our first "naughty"
vacation to Europe.  The main thing on our mind was to "Swing" when we
selected Amsterdam for the first half our vacation.  Those were
"pre-Internet days" for us, and we did not know a soul there.  We had read
a book, which gave details about the clubs there.

   You have just read Part A.  The entire story, Story #3-050, Parts A-H
are available free at:
hhp://www.asstr.org/files/Authors/Joans_True_3-some_Stories.