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 Jan's Long-Term Relationship with One Special MFM Partner

   Joan, Thank you for your kind words regarding my "personal thoughts,"
which you have posted on your web site.  You asked for a follow-up piece
that tells about our two-year relationship with the special male partner
who shares our life.

   As I mentioned in my "personal thoughts," for the past two years we have
confined our MFM relationships to just one extra male...  rather than
experiencing a different male every few weeks.  Having the opportunity to
experience different men can be...  and was...  exciting, but it also
became frustrating.

   Some of the guys were extremely good lovers, and were thoughtful and
caring.  I also found that some were borderline jerks who were only
interested in getting their rocks off.  We were fortunate to be able to
weed out most of the jerks, but every so often one would get by our
screening process, and we ended up with a bad experience.

   Over the months we narrowed our activities to only three of four of the
men who were high on our list, and eventually ended up spending all of our
MFM time with just one.

   Our partner, whom we will call David, was one of the most enjoyable men
we spent time with.  Right from the start we found him to be an attentive,
caring, and good lover who did everything possible to please me and to fit
in with both Eric and me.

   We had known David for several years through our mutual business
relationships before we even had our first MFM experience with him.  Eric
and David are in the same type of business, and had a good business
relationship before we became involved with him sexually.

   I didn't know him as well as Eric did.  My relationship with David was
strictly as Eric's wife.  We would see each other at various business
events, but that was about the extent of my involvement with him.

   Things moved to a different level a few years ago when both Eric and
David were attending an out-of-town business conference.  The last night of
the conference they ended up having several drinks at the hotel bar.  After
a couple of drinks the conversation began to focus on David and his
personal life...  and he admitted to Eric that his marriage was in trouble.
I'm going to let Eric fill you in on more of the conversation, so that it
is told more accurately.

   Eric's Comments: As Jan mentioned, David and I sat in the hotel bar and
talked until after 2 in the morning.  After a couple of drinks David
started talking about himself...  and went into detail about the problems
he was having in his relationship with his wife.

   She had apparently lost interest in having sex after their second child
was born, and had become less and less interested in any sort of intimate
relationship.  It was clear that he had resigned himself to stay with her,
and to take care of her and his children, despite the fact that there was
absolutely no intimacy or sex between them.

   They had confronted each other regarding this problem several times, but
nothing had ever gotten resolved, and even counseling hadn't helped.  I was
surprised to learn that he had never had an affair or been with another
woman to help fill the physical void.  It was very clear from our
conversation that he loved his wife and kids and didn't want a divorce, but
it was also clear that he was in dire need of some sexual and emotional
companionship.

   When I got home from the conference, I told Jan about our conversation.
I knew she really liked David, and thought she might have some advice for
me to share with him.  We talked about David a lot over the next few days.

   One evening after making love I made a comment about how hard it would
be to be in David's place and not have the intimacy that Jan and I shared.
Jan looked at me, and out of the blue she asked: "Do you think David could
be someone we might consider for a threesome?"

   Until that moment I hadn't thought of his being a candidate as a third
for us, but the more we talked about it the more it seemed like a good
idea. It would be a good way for David to fulfill his need for intimacy and
sex, and at the same time provide Jan and me with the opportunity to enjoy
a threesome with a great guy.

   During the next few days we talked about how we could go about
approaching David with the idea, and explored several options.  Finally we
decided the best course would be to tell him about our lifestyle and see
what his reaction would be.  We knew he would be shocked at first, but from
our experience with him we also knew he would want to know more.

   A few days later I called David and invited him to join me for a drink
at a local bar.  At first David was all apologetic for having burdened me
with his personal issues, and I tried to reassure him that I thoroughly
understood.  "How do you guys do it," he asked, "how do you manage such a
great relationship?" he continued, as we downed our first drink.

   His question opened the door...  and I told David that we had a very
special relationship.  It took me a while to get around to the main point,
but after laying some careful groundwork I finally told him that we enjoyed
MFM experiences with select men.

   As predicted, he was shocked, but started asking questions.  After
another round of drinks and my sharing a lot of details, I asked if he
might like to join us sometime.  He was taken aback by the invitation, and
was unsure about how he would feel in that situation.

   As we bid each other goodnight I suggested that he call Jan and invite
her for a drink, so the two of them could get to know each other on a more
intimate level.

   Jan's Comments: A few days went by, and Eric and I were beginning to
think that we had blown it with David.  We both wanted to pursue the
relationship, and had been looking forward to him calling, but were quickly
losing hope that he would.  A day or two later David finally called.  He
apologized for taking so long to get up the nerve.  We talked for several
minutes, and he and I finally agreed to meet that afternoon at a local bar.


   My legs were shaking when I got out of my car and started toward the
bar. All kinds of thoughts floated through my head.  "What if we don't
click?  What if he doesn't even like me?  Have we pushed this too far too
fast?" By the time I walked into the bar I was a nervous wreck.

   Being the perfect gentleman we have always known him to be, David stood
and took my hand, pulling me closer as he softly kissed my cheek.  All of
the crazy thoughts flew out of my head...  and I was immediately at ease. I
knew that if he was willing, a threesome with him was going to be an
exceptional experience.

   After some polite conversation, the topic turned to sex.  David was full
of questions, and wanted to know everything about threesomes.  It was
apparent that he was more than interested in accepting Eric's earlier
invitation.  "I can't even imagine what it would be like to be in your arms
and make love to you!" he said.  "I don't know how I would react with Eric
being right there!"

   "Why don't you try it and find out?" I suggested.  I told him that I
knew about his wife and his personal situation.  I empathized with his need
for sex and intimacy, and reassured him that our relationship would be to
fill that need...  and nothing more.

   "Are you sure you want to do this?" he asked, taking my hand and kissing
my fingers.

   When I told him that I thought I would really enjoy the opportunity, he
made the decision.  While he paid the bar bill, I called Eric to let him
know we were on the way home.  I gave him directions, just in case, but had
him follow me home.

   Eric had placed several candles around the house, and had turned on some
soft music.  We paused at the door to let our eyes adjust to the dim
lighting before making our way to the bar where a chilled bottle of
champagne waited.

   Eric poured champagne for everyone, and we toasted the first of many
wonderful threesomes.  David was very nervous at first, but after the first
glass of champagne, he leaned over and kissed me.  I cupped his face and
held it to mine, allowing his tongue to enter my mouth.

   We kissed for several seconds as his hands moved over my body, softly
caressing my breasts and nipples.  Eric moved behind me and helped undo the
buttons on my blouse.  David let out a loud moan as his hands and fingers
found the soft flesh of my tits.

   Eric left the two of us alone, and went to our bedroom where he turned
down the bed.  I took David by the hand and led the way down the hall.  We
stood at the foot of our bed, and embraced again.  As David gained more
confidence, he bent forward and licked my nipples.

   As he gently kissed and sucked my breast, I unbuttoned his shirt and
pushed it from his body.  He reciprocated by undoing my skirt and pushing
it down my hips, leaving me standing there in just my high heels.

   He stepped back and finished undressing.  Then he led me to the bed and
gently lowered me so that my legs dangled over the edge.  He knelt on the
floor and began kissing his way up my legs and thighs.  I could tell that
there was a lot of pent up emotion raging in him, and was determined to
prolong this experience as long as possible.

   Eric had decided to remain apart for the moment, to let David become
accustomed to his presence.  From across the room Eric whispered, "Enjoy
yourself!" as he sat down to watch.

   David continued his exploration, and used his tongue to taste and
tantalize every inch of my body.  He hoisted my legs over his shoulders and
buried his face in my sex.

   After a few minutes Eric had undressed, and was moving toward the bed,
stroking his beautiful cock as he joined us on the bed.  I took Eric in my
mouth while David continued his attack on my sensitive flesh.  My whole
body was on fire from the erotic sensations that surrounded me.  For not
having had sex in a long time, David was a master with his tongue...  and
he brought me to an excruciating climax.

   I pulled him upward and held him to me as my climax subsided.  Eric
moved away for a moment, and I pulled David upward so I could lick and suck
his cock.  While I was engrossed with the big cock in my mouth, Eric slid
his cock inside me, and began pounding in and out of me with a vengeance.

   I could feel that David was on the verge of exploding, so I backed off
on the sucking and told him I wanted his cock in me when he came.  Eric
moved away and was immediately replaced by David.  I curled my legs around
David and held him as he moved in and out of me with ever increasing
thrusts.

   Finally his body stiffened as he spent himself inside me.  He must have
been saving up for a long time because his ejaculation simply did not want
to stop.

   A few minutes later the three of us were propped against the head of the
bed with our glasses full of champagne.  The mood was relaxed, and I let
David know that I had thoroughly enjoyed him.  The three of us made love a
couple more times that afternoon, and agreed before he left that this was
just the beginning.

   Jan's Summary: Since that day Eric and I have confined our MFM
relationships to just David.  The three of us have grown very close, and
share a strong bond of trust and caring.

   The three of us get together at least once a week for some incredible
sex, and share a strong friendship and intimacy.  The amount of time we
spend together seems to work out very well for all concerned, and we are
always looking forward to the next time.

   We have been able to manage an occasional weekend getaway as a
threesome, and I have been very fortunate to have been able to spend a few
afternoons or evenings alone with David...  with Eric's blessing.

   David is a great lover who is really into pleasing the woman, and he
knows just when to switch places with Eric.  It has been more than two
years since our first time as a threesome, and we all agree that they have
been two extraordinary years...  filled with fun, excitement, and sex.

   Eric's Summary: The relationship with David has brought a lot of very
positive things to things to the relationship that Jan and I have enjoyed
for so many years.  We were growing weary of trying to find suitable
partners, and were growing tired of some of the more regular ones.

   We never established any sort of a strong relationship with any of them,
and those entire relationships were based strictly on sex.  With David the
relationship is a lot more personal.  Not only do we share a sexual
relationship, but we have built a strong friendship as well.

   David and I have grown as close as (or perhaps closer than) brothers,
and thoroughly enjoy each other's company...  and the opportunity to share
intimacy with Jan.

   David's Comments (written for him by Eric): Because of my relationship
with my wife, and our lack of any sex or intimacy, I had been searching for
alternatives.  One of those alternatives was to search swinger sites on the
web.

   I had corresponded with a few couples, but had not reached the point of
comfort to actually take it any further.

   When Eric told me that he and Jan were involved in threesomes, I was
shocked.  When he asked if I would like to join them as the extra guy, I
was even more shocked.  It took me a few days to think it through and make
a decision to do just that.

   I love my wife, despite our lack of sex and intimacy, and would never
want to hurt her.  I think that was my reason for not moving forward with
the other couples I had been corresponding with.

   Because of the relationship that Eric and I already had, I felt a lot
more comfortable with the idea of being with he and Jan than some strange
couple I did not know.

   Making that original phone call to Jan was very difficult...  but when
Jan and I met at the bar and started talking, things seemed to click in
place.  I felt good about the idea, and felt that it just might be the
solution to my needs.

   As a result of the relationship we have shared over the past two years,
I have found myself in a better place...  and am able to relate to my wife
on a totally different level.  We still do not have sex, but have grown
more in tune and accepting of each other.

   With Jan and Eric, I have the best of both worlds.  I can be a family
man, love my wife for who and what she is, and still satisfy the sexual and
emotional needs that had been such a void in my life.

   NOTE from Joan: Anyone wishing to correspond with Jan and Eric may do so
by writing to me (JJJ3313260@AOL.com) for forwarding to them.