Tuesday
Mourning
Chapter
One
“Uncle
Frank,” my young nephew, Jason Adams yelled excitedly. The 9 y/o was
disembarking from his flight. His mom had arranged for him to come and visit me
for the first time and he would be staying for the summer holidays. The call
from his mom two weeks before surprised me. She had never allowed me to spend
any time alone with my nephew. She denies it but I believe that it was because
I was gay. Her Church took a very conservative stance on homosexuality; to them
the term homosexual was synonymous with the term pedophile. So my sis, while
she knew that I would never hurt her son, she was also afraid of what the
busybodies within the First Church of the Frigid Air would think if she let me
spend any significant amount of time with him.
As Jason
grew up, it became apparent that he would take after me when it came to who he
was attracted to. I kept hoping that my sister would pick up on that and get
him out of that church, where I had almost been destroyed as a boy. The church had
had a long line of homophobic ministers. Even the newer ones that had come
along preached that all homosexuals would go to hell unless they repented and
became straight. They taught that if a boy felt same sex attractions, he could
become attracted to the opposite sex if they had enough faith.
I know
that was what they taught me. And I must confess that at one time I believed
that too. It's hard enough to just be gay but to be gay and Christian is the
hardest thing any boy will ever face. And most will be like me, hating
themselves for being different. I spent countless nights alone in my room,
praying and crying, asking God to make me normal. And see, my church was big
into the prosperity gospel, what I call name it and claim it or gab it and grab
it. They taught that if one had enough faith that God had no choice but to give
you what you want, because He promised to bless His people. So it sounded so
easy, all I had to do was have enough faith and God had to make me straight.
But
things didn't work out that way. Not only did my attraction to other males not
change but it got stronger. So when I was 13 years old, I tried to commit
suicide. That is the dark side of Prosperity theology, especially for young gay
Christian boys. I figured that if I didn't have enough faith, then God must
have wanted me to go to hell, so I decided to just get it over with. Well, God
soon showed me that He was okay with who I was because He had made me that way.
The
wriggling, giggling nine year old boy in my arms brought me back to the
present. “Earth to Uncle Frank. Earth to Uncle Frank. Come in Uncle Frank,” he
chirped in his soprano voice.
“Sorry,
buddy,” I said. “I was just thinking. You hungry?”
“Duh,” he
giggled. “I'm a growing boy. I'm always hungry.”
Based on
my sister's comments about him, he wasn't exaggerating. He could eat enough
food to feed a small army. If it's true that boys' appetite's increase
exponentially as they reach puberty, than my sister had her hands full.
“Whatcha
wanna eat?” I asked.
“Taco
I smiled.
“Taco
I lowered
him to the ground and we went and found my car. I thought that Jason's eyes
were going to fall out completely at the sight of my custom Ferrari f430
convertible.
“Toooooooo
coooooooool,” he said in an awed voice, before getting in.
I got in
my side and Jason sighed in pleasure as I started the engine. I looked to the
side and noticed that he had sprouted an erection. This didn't shock me. I
often had the same reaction to the seat vibrating underneath me. I decided not
to embarrass him by mentioning it, so I merely put the car in gear and drove
off.
“Hey,
Jason?”
“Yes,
Uncle Frank?”
“You want
the top up or down?” I asked.
“Down,”
he said. “I love convertibles.”
I smiled
and clicked the button controlling the automatic roof. Jason looked in awe as
the roof automatically folded itself down until the wind was blowing into our
faces and through our hair. I looked over at the boy and almost gasped. He was
stunning. Long black hair, brown eyes and he was dressed in a t-shirt and
shorts.
After
about 20 minutes, we arrived at the restaurant. As we walked in, I said to him,
“Now I would imagine that your mom told you to go easy on the chow you order.
Forget it. You order what you want, understand?”
Jason
turned and stopped. He snapped to attention and gave me an exaggerated salute
saying, “Aye, aye, sir.” Then he collapsed on the ground in a fit of giggles. I
started giggling too. God, I love this kid, I thought.
Finally,
we made it inside the Taco
The rest
of the day we just chilled out at home and I allowed him to get settled in at
my place and we could just talk and get to know each other. I knew that he had
never been away from his mom before and I was hoping to head off any feelings
of homesickness. I'd had this suggested to me by one of my band mates. And it
seemed to work.
The next
two weeks were pretty busy as I took him to a lot of places that he had always
wanted to visit: theme parks, a local animal safari and anyplace else that
struck his fancy. I felt Jason and I were bonding well. He was content to
wander around with me, his tiny hand securely in mine. Yes we were bonding. I
just didn't know how well we were bonding.
It was
the beginning of the third week. Jason had spent most of the first two weeks
sleeping with me, just like on a sleep over. So it surprised me when he said
that he wanted to sleep in the guest room that night. He also surprised me by
saying that he wanted to go to bed early after having a shower.
I heard
him go into the bathroom and I heard the water start. All was quiet for about
15 minutes and then I heard a shriek of pain from the bathroom.
“UNCLE
FRANK! HELP ME! GOD, IT HURTS!”
I sprang from my chair and entered the bathroom. There I found my nephew in the
shower naked and wet, but wet not with water. There was blood everywhere. At
first, I wondered where the blood was coming from and what had caused it. It
was then that I spotted the razor blade in Jason's hand and then that the blood
was coming from his penis.
Oh Lord
no, I thought. He tried to cut it off and I have a good idea why. Damn those
religious freaks. I looked around for something to try and staunch the
bleeding. I finally settled for grabbing his worn briefs and wrapping them
around the wound with my watch band. I grabbed a towel and wrapped it around
him before I ran for the door. I took him down to the car and ran him to the
hospital. I got stopped once but when I explained the situation, the officer
gave me an escort to the hospital. We got him in quickly and he needed a few
stitches.
As I sat
in the waiting room, I pondered how I would handle this. I had a pretty good
idea what had caused this. The boy was gay as I had suspected. As for the
extreme way, he had tried to maim himself, it could only mean that he was
attracted to me. No please don't get the idea that I am a saint. I greatly
desired my nephew and under normal circumstances, I may have decided to let
things develop in that direction. But these were not ordinary circumstances. At
this point my nephew was much too conflicted about himself and his feelings to
even attempt such a thing.
Finally,
my musings were interrupted by a nurse. “Mr. Adams, you may come back and see
your nephew now.”
I got up
silently and followed the nurse back into the back area of the emergency room
into a small room. Jason lay there naked except a bandage sheathing his tiny
boyhood and scrotum. Just before I went to sit down, the doctor arrived. I
introduced myself. The doctor's manner was serious and grave.
“Sir,
your nephew is a very lucky little boy. If he had not screamed and you had not
responded as quickly as you did, he would likely have bled to death,” she said.
“However, as you may be aware, the law requires me to report certain injuries
to them if there is the suspicion of abuse,” she paused before going on. “Sir,
I am in no way accusing you of anything, but in my clinical opinion this injury
is often attempted by male victims of sexual abuse. I also examined your nephew's
anus and discovered that he has been penetrated in the past.”
Oh shit.
I thought. Not again. Where the fuck do they find these guys? But outwardly I
remained calm. “Were you able to tell how recently this has been done to him?”
I asked.
“Yes sir.
There are several things we look at. The anus is a tiny muscle called a
sphincter. It is designed to expand and contract to allow waste materials to be
eliminated. Sir, I am not one to make a judgment on someone's lifestyle but the
anus was not made for intercourse.”
“What do
you mean?” I asked.
“Well
sir, in this case, the anus and rectum are not designed to stretch sufficiently
to allow penetration by a penis, especially that of an older boy or an adult.
The anus can tear and even if it does not, the repeated pushing in and pulling
out of the anus can cause bruising.”
“What
does that mean in Jason's case?” I asked.
“Allow me
to show you,” she said as she led me into Jason's room.
She
approached the bed and I noticed that Jason was laying on a bed with stirrups on
it. She grasped one of Jason's heels and placed it in one stirrup and then did
likewise with the other. All of a sudden I was able to see Jason anal region. I
really didn't need the doctor to explain much more. My eyes told me all I
needed to know. My suspicions were true.
“Sir, as
you can see, there is a ring of very dark bruising surrounding the anus,” she
used her gloved finger to trace what she was talking about. “This tells me that
the boy has been sodomized a great many times.”
Then she
pointed at Jason's anus itself. “Here I observed a couple of things. Firstly
there are several fissures that have healed over. Secondly, you can see that
the anal muscle looks very slack,” She looked to see if I was looking and I
nodded.
She
continued. “Mister Adams, it is my professional opinion that your nephew has
been repeatedly sodomized by either an adult male or a male in his late teens.
As near as I can tell I can estimate that the last time was probably 2-3 weeks
ago.”
Bingo. I
thought. Just before this sudden trip. My sis had discovered what was being
done to Jason and had sent him here to me. And I had a pretty good idea who had
been doing the sodomizing.
“Sir,”
the doctor said. “Do you have any further questions?”
I shook
my head and she left. I went over the bed and I removed Jason's feet from the
stirrups. While doing this, a feeling of deep anger swept over me. I went and
sat in a chair beside my sleeping nephew. I grasped his hand and held it. I
lowered my head to rest on the sidebar on the bed. I said a quick prayer before
raising my head.
Jason
stirred after about 30 minutes. He looked ashamed as he saw me. I leaned over
and whispered in his ear. “You have nothing to be ashamed of.” He smiled and
relaxed and slowly sank into a light sleep.
Then
there was a light rap on the door. I got up and answered it and saw two
detectives standing there, an older man and a younger woman. The man introduced
himself as Detective Cullam and the young woman as Detective
“May we
talk in private, Mr. Adams?” Cullam said.
The three
of us approached the doctor who allowed us to use her office. As I sat down, I
was awaiting the Inquisition. But strangely, it never came.
Instead
Det. Cullam was shaking his head. “Mr. Adams, in my years as a detective, this
is the strangest case I have ever run into.”
“How so?”
I inquired.
Det.
Wilson spoke then. “Well, when the hospital called and gave the information
about young Jason, we did as we usually did and began to check things out.
Jason had told the doctor that he was your nephew and that his mom had sent him
to stay with you for the summer. As I'm sure you can understand, we see a lot
of uncles and nephews that have no relation to each other. But your case turned
out much differently than we thought.”
Cullam
took up the account. “We found the information to get in touch with your
sister, or to try to at least,” He stopped and looked to Det. Wilson.
“Mr.
Adams, it is my unfortunate duty to inform you that your sister passed away
earlier today. The information we had was that she had been terminally ill for
some time. I am very sorry for your loss.”
Cullam
resumed speaking. “This is where the story gets strange. We got a call later
from police there asking if Jason was with you. I told them that we had
information that you were. It seems sir, that, until he came here, your nephew
was the victim of repeated sexual abuse. The perpetrator is now in custody. It
was the pastor of the boy's Church. The understanding we have from them is that
your sister found out about the abuse and decided that the best thing at the
time was to remove Jason from the situation immediately. That was why she sent
him here.”
Wilson
continued. “She knew that any allegations she made against the Reverend would
not be believed, so, fearing retribution, she wrote a letter outlining her
allegations and gave it to a friend, to be delivered to police upon her death.
That was done and the good Reverend is behind bars. Now normally we would be
seeking to do a preliminary interview with Jason as he is in our jurisdiction
and the physical evidence was gathered here. But in light of circumstances, we
can wait until Jason is ready for that. The police in the other jurisdiction
have the letter which allows them to charge him. Again sir, we are sorry for
your loss and for Jason's loss.”
“Thank
you detectives,” I said numbly, as Cullam handed me his card, and they left.
All my earlier anger at Jason's abuse was gone. It was replaced by the numbness
of the idea that my sister was dead. Then the truth of the situation hit me, my
sister had never intended that this was going to be just an Uncle/Nephew
holiday. This was supposed to be a test run, to see if I was up to raising a
nine year old boy. But that test run was over. Jason's welfare was now my full
time job. Unfortunately, my first act as his guardian was to tell him the bad
news.
I trudged
sadly back to Jason's room. He was awake as I entered the room. He smiled at
first until he saw my eyes brimming with tears.
“Uncle
Frank,” he asked quietly. “What's wrong?”
I steeled
myself. “Jason, did you know that your mom was very sick?”
He looked
stunned. “Sick?”
“Yes
Jason,” I said. “She was sick,” Then the tears began to flow. “Jason, your mom
passed away earlier today. I'm so sorry.”
It took a
few seconds for the full import of the words to hit him. He was suddenly all
alone in a big, scary world. I could see him thinking and wondering what would
happen now. Then he became frightened.
“UNCLE
FRANK,” he screamed. “YOU CAN'T LET THEM MAKE ME GO BACK THERE! HE'LL GET ME!
HE'LL THINK I TOLD!” Then he too burst into tears.
I held
him as we both cried out our shared grief. When we had calmed, I began to talk
to him. I explained all that had happened that day and what I thought it meant
for us. I especially said that I thought it likely that he would be living with
me for a long time. He smiled and asked if he could call me daddy. I said he
could if he wanted, but he didn't have to.
At that
moment, the doctor came in and said that all Jason's blood work had come back
and he was in the peak of health and could go home. She also handed me a list
of instructions that needed to be followed. She also talked me through changing
the dressing. She handed me a long and loose fitting hospital shirt to put on
Jason, explaining that he would probably want to refrain from wearing
underpants until the wound had healed. I put the shirt on Jason and carried him
out to my car. I laid him on the back seat. He was asleep as soon as the car
started. I smiled down at him, then drove back home to put my new “son” to bed.